I have been friends with both of them forever. They just got married. She made all of us groomsmen change our appearances, IE I had to cut my hair which was longer. I was supposed to hang out with my best friend this week, but his wife wont allow me to come visit because her sister will be there. My best friend told me it was okay a few days ago, but then told me today it can't happen. I know its not him, but his new wife is a total bit ch. What should I do?
2006-08-13 21:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by de rak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's your bro, and there is nothing you can do about it. If your friend has lost control of his scheduling with his new wife, he will have to negotiate those terms on his own and at his own pace. If you harp on it with him you may not hear from him again. Keep in mind his wife is harping on him and he can't escape that, if you are he has a choice on how to deal with you.
2006-08-13 21:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by sofaguy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to give them space. Especially if they are just married. They will get tired of being together all the time and will welcome your friendship. I don't know what it is but when your with someone that close that's all you want. 3 won't fit in their marriage bed. If your friends with her then tell her how you feel that your feeling left out because its normal when 2 out of 3 friends get close the 3rd feels like a 3rd wheel because that's what you are I'm afraid. look at this time to look around you if your not in a relationship work on that perhaps or get another hobby......good luck.
2006-08-13 22:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend, then you should be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Ask him to talk to his wife about your concerns. Married couples need their own personal space to hang out with friends in order for the marriage to work. Maybe he could explain it to her like that. I don't know their relationship or how much love is involved, but if she can't come to terms with that and just wants her husband all to herself, then that is very selfish and maybe the marriage is not meant to be.
2006-08-13 22:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by DJ Scottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck up and deal with the fact that your friend is married now. His wife comes first now...not you. Stop being a spoiled brat and grow up. I suggest you stop calling her names as well...unless you want the "friendship" you have with this guy to end.
2006-08-13 22:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably get a new friend, because if he's that p*ssywhipped, than your friend is gone. Everything changes after you get married, and mostly not for the best, especially for friends.
2006-08-13 21:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does that Steve extra healthful into the image? Your husband needs a extensive lesson on "being pleased with your spouse" and lacks the social etiquette of an outstanding husband. desire you left him at the back of or i could have approached that Steve and tell him to talk on your husband LOL
2016-10-02 01:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can meet ur friend out of her knowledge.u know what i mean?
his wife shouldn't know u r going out somewhere!
y is he telling her everything?he gives her the green light!
sorry to tell u that u can do nothing about it!
2006-08-13 21:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he's a wooped dog and let him decide if it's healthy to hang on to his friendship.
2006-08-13 21:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by gs400cww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, your not married to her......
2006-08-13 21:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋