Friends of mine are fighting, obviously I see her side, but let's get some unbiased opinions. She woke up at 1 am to find her husband wrestling on the floor with one of their daughters friends. The girl is 15, and he was in his underwear. He's throwing a fit, doesn't understand why it was wrong to do laundry (he HAS more then 1 pair of pants, and put some on when she threw a fit). He's whining to everyone about his wife being a nag, she's complaining he needs to keep his pants on.
2006-08-13 21:42:33 · 19 answers · asked by Theresa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The husband is obviously wrong. Here are two questions your friend can pose to her Husband.
1. How would you(the husband) feel if I(wife) were wrestling on the floor with a 15 year old boy in my underwear?
2. What would you do if you saw your daughter pinned to the ground by a 40 year old man in his underwear?
The truth is though that no man (myself included) would admit any guilt when caught in a compromising situation. What else is he to say... "O.K. honey your right.. I was trying to cop a feel of our daughters 15 year old friend... can we kiss and make up now?"
I think your friend has much larger problems than trying to prove she is right... she may want to contact the authorities.
2006-08-13 21:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by sofaguy101 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The husband is a dummy. He shouldn't be wrestling or anything else with a 15 year old girl. I don't understand a single word about the more than 1 pair of pants, etc. He was wrestling with a 15 year old girl. That is the crux of the matter.
2006-08-13 21:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by wunderkind 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So the question is who is right between an angry wife and a husband who is caught wresting with a 15 year old girl?
Heh, the wife should move out or put him out right now. I assume the daughter is 15 as well, how much "wrestling" has he done with her?
2006-08-14 03:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by kayzee_72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd side with the woman on this case, first of all, if you're wrestling with a 15 year old girl in your underwear, you're already asking for trouble.
Second off, if a guy is running around in his underwear, there shouldn't be anyone in the house, if he has any decency.
From the sounds of it, he was way out of line, and blew it....plus, she might have caught him trying something else, later on....I'd keep tabs on him, just in case....
2006-08-13 21:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by steveraven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife is right....no doubt in this case. The girl is a minor. Different somewhat if it was his own daughter. However, she is 15 too; still should at least put on gym shorts over his underwear...
2006-08-13 22:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Just2See 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right. The fact that he's wrestling with a 15 yr old girl in his underwear is disturbing enough.
2006-08-13 21:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this. I think he needs counciling now. rolling on the floor with a 15 yr old in your underware is not acceptable. Ask her parents how they feel about it. If I was them I would call the police. I would also be afraid to leave him alone with my 15 yr old daughter even his own.
2006-08-14 02:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very sorry but this is very wrong,he could face prosecution if she goes to the police,he had his hands on a 15 yr old and it is unacceptable,,his wife must be thinking all sorts,,i know i would be,he should definately NOT think it is normal to be wrestling this girl,,and why was he not in bed with his wife at 1 oclock in a morning,,he needs to realise he is not a teenager and she is,,this could be taken very,very wrong. if he sees nothing wrong with it he needs help.
2006-08-13 21:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is sooooooo right that I want to smack him FOR her. Or, how about, gee, I dunno, let's ask the 15-year-old girl's dad how he feels about it, and then if her husband still has any teeth left, he can tell everyone how wrong he was and how sorry he is. What a closet pervert.
2006-08-13 21:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really discusting that he would do that to a 15yr old girl! That poor girl is going to have nightmares for the rest of her life!
2006-08-13 23:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋