2006-08-13 21:31:58 · 32 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you already have stopped, you just can't quit thinking about all the past good times, this is normal, new good times will outweigh the old good times! when you don't know if others deserve your love you were never really in love you just had needs! love roccks!
2006-08-13 21:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the circumstances are. Are there children involved. dose he love you? Do you feel this way all the time your together? Are ye together? Personally i think everyone deserves love. If someone is being an *** there's nearly always a reason, even Hitler. yes even Hitler. He didn't live in the real world, he lived in one that was built up in his head. Now i hope he's not that bad! What I'm trying to say is that maybe there is a reason you love him and still want to be with him. If its not infatuation i don't think you will ever stop loving him. But i could be wrong!!!! If there is abuse involved seek help.
2006-08-13 21:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really truely love someone you can't just decide one day to stop loving them. Its just not that simple. But you can make a consious decision to move on with your life. If you truely are not happy then I guess you have to decide is it better for you to be in a situation or loving someone who doesn't love you back or you feeldoesn't deserve you love and get hurt everyday or you walk away and it only hurts for awhile. It's your decition. Hopefully you'll make the right one.
GOODLUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 21:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love someone, you may never stop loving them. They will always have a place in your heart.
But to stop being IN LOVE , start by LETTING HIM GO. It hurts, but do what's healthy for you. He doesn't deserve your love , so don't offer it anymore. Love someone who treats you the same, or better!!
2006-08-13 21:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard, it will take time but you will get there in the end. Love is a funny thing. You need to just move on and try not to have to much to do with the bloke/guy you like. Good luck
2006-08-13 21:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same problem,, you cant,, you just gotta leave and move on,, or you stay and get hurt, its better to leave and be hurt without them, then to stay and hurt, at least when you leave you are taking advantage of your own life, and giving your self a chance to find someone who deserves your love,,,ps sorry if its not what u ment
2006-08-13 21:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably need time to get over this guy.
occuppy yourself with other things like hobbies, TV, going out. Keep your mind of him. and DON'T CALL HIM!
Spend time with the people who DO deserve your love.. these are your friends, your family and even your pets (if you have any).
2006-08-13 21:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by statistics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop!
then move on! stop thinking about them! just stop!
you are just hurting yourself!
if you know he doesn't deserve it then give it to someone who will! easy as that! and you wont regret it at the end! you know you made the right choice!
2006-08-13 21:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by yen12rs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen darling, firstly change your id to happy girl!! and start living!!
enjoy your life, feel happy and if he doesnt deserve your love and you know well just 4get about him, i know its easier said than done sugar, but keep busy, take up a hobby, surround yourself with positive things..... read self help books on increasing your self esteem, when you feel good about yourself, nice things will happen, dont be a doormat girl get up and dust yourself off. god bless seli xx
2006-08-13 21:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let go. It's not easy, but it's not impossible either. It's better to just let go than lead someone on. If you can't stop loving, you can't stop caring.
2006-08-13 21:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋