im somewhat over weight and not very atractive to most wemen but im really cool guy but no girl likes me why?

Answer 1

it may be because you have not found the right girl.. but I don't think weight is the issue.. there are many men and women who date even when they are overweight.. or underweight... take a serious look at yourself.. and figure out what is positive about you.. then try to stay close to your positive side.. ie; you have a funny side.. show it.. or.. you are sensitive.. like poetry... etc.. then find a girl who also likes what you like... there are girls and guys out there for everyone.. just be your self.. and show some confidence.. not attitude.. but personal confidence.. like.. really liking yourself will come through to others if you take pride in the way you look and act... don't think confidence means cocky... and overbearing.. it really means thinking I am a good person.. and I am likable.. and others will see that in you... Good Luck.. :)

Answer 2

First of all, women are all schitzofrantic and nobody knows what they think so dont assume they dont like you by the way they act toward you. If you feel overweight then start working out and walking, you will feel and look better but make it a lifestyle and not a sometimes thing.. Be yourself and you will find someone genuine, make yourself noticeable and keep your head up, dont walk like a zombie. Woman can sense when a man has low self esteem, it may attract some but most are turned off and scared by a man who is or seems depressed. Stand up, be a man, and get what you want.

Answer 3

I guess I'd have to know why your saying not very attractive. Something in you is crushing your confidence. Women respond to confidence. Not arrogance, tho some women do "need" a bully, but actual confidence.
What ever there is about you that you find unattractive, fix it. It most likely isn't the women around you seeing it, but the fact that it effects you.
People aren't all so shallow as to care about weight. In the US people are acting like were all supposed to be blond haired and skinny as hell,(sounds like another countries problem once upon a time but don't say anything about it, they like the bubble of ignorance), but it's not the way people actually look. Besides, many women prefer a big guy. They see things like, teddy bear , or macho, or a big presence in these men, but they mostly see his confidence.
Work there.

Answer 4

Sorry to say, but it might be because of the overweight part and you said you're not very attractive. Looks seem like they don't, but they do in a way. Probably a lot of girls you are around prefer otherwise. But keep on being that cool guy and you will find someone. There's someone out there for everyone.

Answer 5

dude ask girls what parts about you they find attractive and accentuate. If its humor make sure you highlight that within yourself. Being overweight isn't nessiarily a bad thing, a lot of girls dig chubby sometimes more than muscles. I mean, I dig chubbier girls, not like fat but like you know 20, 25 pounds over weights its a good thing

Answer 6

I'm truely sorry to hear that...a pretty face and a nice body doesn't make a person...I try and look deeper inside a person...you maybe a caring,loving and trusting man and a person who likes to have fun and enjoy life...I would pick a man who hads all of those over a attractive man and a nice body...If you found a woman who would want to date you for those reason...I bet you would want to lose weight and stick to it...

Clowmy

Answer 7

Look Pyro.

the way i hear this it seems like u're NEED to love and accept yourself before you expect anybody else to love you, It all starts from the within,

I also think that it is not important that people should like you but sometimes it's your personality that attracts the people.

So please don't feel sorry for yourself cause no one else will notice you.

Answer 8

hey mr.golu molu

don't get upset.it's right girls like good looking boys,but u don't woory u will get ur girl verry soon,

believe in ur self, no need 2 change.
remember people like u by hart not ur looks wealth esccccc'
so don't get upset. be happy.

Answer 9

BECAUSE YOU ARE OVER-WEIGHT AND NOT VERY ATTRACTIVE. SEEMS SIMPLE ENOUGH TO ME. BUT BEAR IN MIND, EVEN FAT UGLY PEOPLE END UP MARRIED AND HAVING A GREAT LIFE. SO JUST HANG IN THERE SOMEONE SPECIAL WILL ENTER YOUR LIFE SOON.

Answer 10

too showy? try to mellow your self down and be unique but not too unique. be proud you're fat like me right now. not being cool 'coz you're hiding you're fatness.