Plz hear to my sad story!!!!?

Question

u know what, sometimes i feel like commiting a suicide but i wont do that. u know y? my bro has taken my parents atraction towards him, just becoz he is gud in studies, sports, singing, painting, he is smart and intelligent, he is gud in computers, and what not!!
But just luk at me? i am gud for nothing, and so..i am trying to discover my talent, but which i couldn't. Could u help me out plz.
i also want my parents to give a bit of attention towards me also.
But what to do as i am gud in nothing..i dont have any talent as such, leaving that i am lil beautiful, but which doesnt matter at all!!
Eveery night i cry, coz i also want the equal share of lov, as my bro gets.!!!
Could u plz tell me what am i gud in?

Answer 1

yes u r good by heart, u r pure from ur heart, i hav'nt met u but i can understand u!!!!!!!!!
it happens sometimes that the difference between the brother and sister!!!!!!!!! just chill
u r the best remember that
maybe ur brother think the same wen ur parents like u
so juss chilax

Answer 2

what are your interests? When you find something you really like, you'll probably have a talen for it. I hate to admit but I had to compete with 3 sisters who were good at anything art or musically related. I remember very vividly going to their school with my mom and watching them get tons of awards - every year. I didn't discover my talent for photography till I left home and joined the navy.
Give yourself a break. Go have some fun and maybe you discover something special inside you that will blossom into an ability that will give yyou the recognition you need. ALSO, please tell you parents that you need more of their attention. If they don't listen or don't hear you, go talk to a closebrelative or teacher who can help you get your point across. Don't be so hard on yourself. Many families havea kid that gets a lot of attention - not fair - but that's life. Now, go find some interesting that you'll shine in. Hugs.

Answer 3

It’s always easier said than done. What does the world know the amount of pain we silently go through each night...day in and day out. My brother always got the attention from my parents and he still gets it after all these 24 years. So I know exactly what you are feeling right now. There were days when I cried too. Oh those lonely nights. There is nothing wrong in seeking an equal share of love from parents. Every human being wants that special share of love in life.

But then the experiences that I had gone through have been very fruitful. I know what I am...my strengths and weaknesses. I have grown stronger emotionally.
Suicide is a serious issue and you should never overlook that thought. First address that issue, no matter what happens in life...and no matter how overwhelming the situations and life events are, they can never ever tantamount to a serious step of such great intensity as suicide. Rethink over that thought. I agree, that's why I said "its easier said than done".
Now being "smart and intelligent", "gud at computers" is not the end of the world. What matters is a good heart and a mindset that is accepting/ regards others as human beings. Comparing ourselves with others and getting dejected is the first step towards a downfall. God has made us "beautifully and wonderfully". We all have our own winning ways, qualities that bring a change in someone else's life. Never loose heart over what you are going through. "Sweet are the uses of adversities" says Shakespeare in As You like It. If you get time read "As You like It" play, you will learn so much from it. Adversities are hardships we face everyday and through these hardships and challenges we learn so much. And there is a purpose for every event in our life. Music, its inspires me to move ahead in life, in spite of all the ills of life. Listen to music that calms mind. It brings focus in life to a great extent.

There is another book that I want you to lay your hands on. "Jonathan Livingstone Seagull" by Richard Bach. Believe me, you will love it. Its about one seagull that goes out of it's way to reach those heights that are impossible for its fellow seagulls. This is one book that has inspired me.

Finally speak to your parents, which I am sure you must have already done. Its always hard but I believe in love that does not expect something in return. I know, these words sound utopian standards. I try to reach that level all the time. Another most helpful factor in your battle would be prayer. One great soul once stated "Prayer moves the hand that moves the world." You will get all the understanding and courage to withstand any amount of deprivation.
If ever you want to talk, please feel free to ping. I can lend a listening ear.

Answer 4

I can't tell you what you are good at, but you can tell yourself.

STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

That isn't' t going to help. Take a deep breath and think of something you enjoy doing. No matter what that is do it. (Just so it's legal)

Maybe you are missing the boat with your mom. It would mean a bit more work but you could volunteer to do some chores around the house. go to your mom and tell her, You do so much for the family, I would like to help out more to make your job easier. She will be impressed that you care and that will help a great deal. Well, it should.

If you like art, start drawing and do pics of the family to put out where they can see them. Maybe music is your skill, have you tried that? And there are several different instruments to try if you don't like the first one.

You must first believe there is something you can excel at and then go out and find it. IF your parents told you there was a bottle of money hidden in the yard would you go look for it?

Well, there is something more valuable than money waiting for you to discover it.

Your self respect.
Now get out there and find it.

If you aren't willing to try at any of the suggestions on this board then you are just plain *ss lazy.

Answer 5

You know, if this is a true story and I will assume it is, the thing you have to do is stop comparing yourself to your brother. There is always going to be somebody you meet who is going to be smarter, better looking, more athletic, etc. and if you try to live up to those standards you will always be disappointed. There has to be something in your life you are passionate about. Find that one thing and go for it. The only person you have to be better than is yourself. You are NOT good for nothing and you do have talent and just because it isnt in sports or computers doesnt mean sh**. You might also try talking to your parents and letting them know how you feel. maybe they dont realize they are not giving you enough attention and if they are any kind of parents they will rectify the situation. Her's hoping you find what you are looking for. TAKE CARE!!

Answer 6

Hey, hopefully you really are a bluffmaster, because that's a pretty sad story.

However, if you're serious... PLEASE:

---> Contact a PERSON!!! <---
Talking to a real human is the best thing you can do right now. Don't wait for good internet advice, because you need to talk to a real person. A good candidate would be a teacher, or if you're religious, a person of the cloth.

But do talk to a human being, soon.

Even though you feel like you won't "actually" commit suicide, if you're thinking about it, you really need to talk to somebody. Sometimes a complete stranger works just fine. You just need to find somebody who is a good listener, and can help steer you in the right direction.

Everybody is good at something. You just need to find it. Right now you need somebody to help you figure out where to go next, and eventually you'll get there.

Answer 7

you're the older sister, aren't you?

Well, the new borns (latest borns) always (usually) get the more attention from the parents. You can't really fight that. Just do something with your life and your parents will notice you again.

HOWEVER, you necessarily have talents in a field or another. What do you like doing? If there's something you like doing, try it out. And if you're no good there, keep trying. Maybe you're not a genius in maths or computers, but you might be a genius of hard work...

keep smiling too. I like it best when you smile :-)


now, if you can't find anything you like doing, do you think you've thought of all possible careers?
do you like writing?
try writer or journalism

do you like science?
in which field are you most at ease?

do you like talking with people?
can be good at selling stuff or understanding people (becoming psychologist / counselor, or something)

Answer 8

we have been put in this world by God for a purpose. We may not know what, but as we grow through experience, we'll find out what that is. There's no worthless person in this world. We are all unique in our own ways. Your brother may be smart, an achiever and all, but you have something that he doesn't. You mentioned that you're beautiful. Man, that's a start! God has invested a lot in you, don't allow yourself to be consumed by depression through your brother. Your parents love you just the same, trust me. :) I have a sister who is a whole lot more intelligent and an achiever than i'll ever be, but I don't let that bring me down. Because I know that my parents; love never disappeared and that I am special in my own little ways. Cheer up. I'll pray for you :)

Answer 9

ever since I've gotten into Buddhism I've learned that just being me is the best thing that's ever happend. Don't worry about what other people think or what you think people think. Enjoy life to its fullest. Go out and walk around, smell the flowers, sing, skip, pet a dog, say hi to a stranger, be adventurous! And look at yourself as a strong flower planted deep into the soil, soo strong that when the wind and rain come crashing down on you, you are "still" and nothing can change you.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

Dont be jealous of your brothers success. Celebrate along with the rest of your family and show maturity, and dotn try to compete for their affection. Love your parents, but if you want, ask them if they ar disappointed in you. They might not realise they are giving all thier attention to him. Be cool and dont make such a big thing about it...We all love you here.