this person is being spiteful and malicious to me why i dont know now she obviously has been heard as the victim as inow have to say my story to council also blatanly lying about me and my twins she seems very convincing how do i let them see what she is doing is lies
2006-08-13 20:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by diamondsr4ever 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I get the feeling she's not lying.
2006-08-13 20:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stay cool and give your side of the story. If you have any neighbour who is prepared to support you ask the council if they can come along and speak. It would be worth finding out exactly what power the council has to take action on the basis of this meeting. (The council should advise you beforehand if this is the case). If it could lead to action then I would get advice from a solicitor first. If the woman's allegations are serious but false then I would also see a solicitor.
2006-08-13 21:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by migelito 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did she say you are doing to her firstly? She has to have at least a witness her word against yours if no witness present during the inccident. Also put the camcorder in her face when she starts with you take it to the council. when you face council make sure you look him or her in the face eye to eye and tell your side of the story truthfully. Judges usually know who is lying.. and don't curse or speak rude about the person be calm and as nice as possible..too tell the judge you are apologizing if she thinks you have done anything wrong to her or him and you believe you are inoccent of her charges.. if the person wants to argue with you don't do it in front of the judge!!!!!!!!!!!! ignore her or him,,that tells the judge who's on the up and up and who's the trouble maker hehehe. these small words might help you out a few nice words can go along way, i hope so. good luck, Mia
2006-08-13 21:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by mia g 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly it sounds like this individual is being unreasonable so once you've tryed talking with them and that didnt artwork. Your next suited options are to both go away or rfile them for harrasment. you'll desire info in case your gona rfile them so like human beings have reported get a cheap recorder or perhaps as they make loud noises record the date and time alongside with the noise and then save them up till you've like 5 cases of this occurring and bypass rfile them with the info. After having suggested them i'd recommend attempting to get a mediator to communicate with you and them that way they are going to be some what keen to take heed to and the mediator might want to even see an answer you both do no longer. opportunities are extreme this individual has a reason behind reporting you so in case you'll come across out what that reason is youll have a more effective efficient time coping with the problem.
2016-11-25 00:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing done you don't need to worry about anything.
It would be her word against your word.
But if you did something when it would be time to go to your neighbour and sort things out.
It would be good to have somebody official as a witness like a council worker when you try to sort things out.
Sometimes a small misunderstanding between two parties can lead to a huge problem.
You don't need to like your neighbour but it is always good to stay in good communication with the neighbour.
Good Luck.
2006-08-13 21:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Chacko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and be yourself defend yourself to the truth, 'cause truth always prevails. Obviously the Council will eventually know if they were lying if you face the council and defend your side, tell them that your neighbour is the one who is harassing you, just tell them the truth and stand of for yourself.
2006-08-17 09:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by wala_lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say the TRUTH even little white lies can ruin your credibility in front of the council. If she is lying she will not have any proof. Good thing, huh?
2006-08-13 21:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that the council are investigating this does not mean that they believe her over you: they have a duty to investigate claims like this. As someone else said, if the claims are false and you say so, she will need to provide evidence of her claims. Don't panic, and don't get angry: just tell the truth.
2006-08-13 21:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Graham I 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The council are used to dealing with and sniffing out the truth in these type of cases so most likely the truth will come out.
2006-08-13 21:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask them what proof she has - has she any documentation to prove what you've apparently done? Ask questions. Ask them what does she believe that you've done that passes as harrassment. Probe the Council. Don't get angry over it though. There is always 2 sides to every story and if you feel so strongly over this you can always do her for slander. I'd speak to CAB for advice.
Some people are such twits. Good luck.
2006-08-13 20:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mum-Ra 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a toughy Honey, but if I were you I would first of all sit down and think WHAT she could have against you and from there on I would certainly call in social services (hold on don't panic their there to help) and explain to them how you are being treated, Honest they WILL help you, they do not want children homeless so they are the best people to call in....go for it Honey they are the ones to help you
2006-08-13 21:04:21 · answer #11 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋