My boyfriend watch tooooo much p*rn. How i can help him and change his habit.
2006-08-13 20:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by burnin_priya 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't see that as a problem at all, unless:
1) he watch his collection 24/7;
2) he begins to ignore you;
3) he prefers to masturbate than have sex with you;
4) he begins to suggest for both of you to experiment (e.g., a threesome with a pr*titute/friend/neighbor/etc.) because there'd be no love involved in it anymore but all about sexual fantasies, unless you consent it, too.
Possible solutions would be:
1) keep all his collections out of his reach and/or replace it with any other genre that you think he likes to watch, too.
2) unplug the [DVD] player
3) "no sex if you don't stop watching your collection" rule. But hey, this could be difficult for you, too hehehe.
4) threaten him you'd go away for a long time until he cease from watching them.
However, it's still best to talk with him about it. Tell him what you really feel inside; or your worries. You're probably becoming insecure, too. Well, don't stall... act now. ;)
2006-08-14 00:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all how much is to much?
To much for you? OR To much for him?
Obviously you are the one with the dislike here so I would tell you this and I am being totally honest.
Guys won't change that much at all and if they do it will only be for a short time to get you off their back.
So you need to figure out which it is you really want.
A boy friend that doesn't look at **** or keep the boyfriend you have and not worry about the ****.
BUT you won't make him stop you will only make him unhappy and then you will have other problems...
Jerry
2006-08-13 23:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a sort of an addiction. The reason why it proliferate in the web and in film is due to the response it is getting from people who are addicted to it.
Do not compete with what or who is he watching. Sad to say that no matter how good you are, you might not be good enough for him. The only way to change his habits is to minimize his opportunities in watching porns by injecting other activities that could divert his interest into.
2006-08-13 21:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tabak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** establishes a established for sexual habit that maximum women human beings do no longer opt to stay as a lot as. i'd guess that even the **** queens do no longer stay the way off exhibit screen that they do on. I save seeing on those forums how such an rather good type of human beings imagine it truly is suited. I see it because the first step of many right into a international of darkness that human beings might want to run faraway from. the position does a guy provide up if his spouse condones ****? Do they start up swinging? How about figuring out to purchase a touch warm action on the area to stay out the delusion that **** places on your options the position it festers like a rotting apple. My spouse gained't seem as if a Hollywood movie star yet i do not both. What my spouse does is love me besides and we come across an rather good type of convenience in being with one yet another. it is no longer her looks that save me from ****....it is her love.
2016-11-25 00:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have other interests know suggests them to do that.
Make him to hear Soft Music when he wants to see such things ..
Tell him there are other things in Life that will make u happy rather spending money and watching such things.
Show him more compassion, that he should believe you.
only regular practice of diverting him and help him to understand that how harmful it is to his health.
Make a rehabilation trip or tour to some where there is people who suffer from normal life. Show disabled children and stories or film about them. He will realize the truth.
The only thing is make him understand how important he is to his family and to others.
Try it in a regular way it will make him to avoid seeing and doing such things.
If it doesn;t work . Meet a psychologist and he will guide you.
Take care of your boy friend.
2006-08-13 21:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sexual desire.. varies from person to person and phase/stage in life. Most people do it and also at a particular age. He must be in that phase with highest sexual desire. One explores thinks about it/talks/watches everytime, then it fades away.
Don't bother, it's natural and will pass away.
There is one thing that hepls in many cases. He might not have had sex yet, i believe. Having sex once reduces such desire...
2006-08-14 00:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by debashis j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal ... but watching too much can change the way he thinks abt yuo .. make him realise .. the prons show unrealistic lovemaking that cant be applied in real life .. instead get him watching some educationel love making videos ... i guess that should help him
2006-08-13 20:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by valintino_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what the **** stars do for your boyfriend, even if you have to fake it. or he may just like stroking his meat. even still you sholdnt get mad, he "could" be out with other women, these women on the videos he'll never meet. just a thought.
2006-08-13 20:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by CATCH 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change someone that doesn't want to be change. Kick his azz to the curb and find another.
2006-08-13 21:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. just lay him every second of the day and then he'll be too tired for ****
2006-08-13 20:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by lyricsoldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋