just interested in sex, i mean, ive had an incident where a guy that I liked, only wanted me to have sex with him, (im 14) but he didnt want a relationship, and its the same with a lot of other guys i know, are they not interestend in girlfriends? even if he did want a relationship, i still wouldnt do it at my age, and i know its horemones and everything, and im not saying that teenage girls dont think about it, but how can do you just go up to a girl and ask for it? isnt that rude? or do most of them not care?
2006-08-13 20:09:01 · 20 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and as for fsb2u2004 i never said i WAS ready for a relationship, im looking for one, but i KNOW the responsibilty thats why i HAVENT EVER had a boyfriend
2006-08-13 20:35:53 · update #1
No you are right, most of them don't care, especially at that age. They may think they are all grown up and able to handle that, but they aren't. You are smart to stay away from boys like that. I try to tell my daughter (13) that she should be more worried about school and grades and making GOOD FRIENDS instead of boys and all the crap that goes with them. These kids any more are "going out" one week, and broke up the next! What's the point? And that's how some girls get bad reputations too. Boys seem to let their hormones run their bodies, so girls need to use their brains! Good luck!
2006-08-13 20:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it imagine the age is getting decrease , i(18 am a dad to be) and that i lost mine at 16 , i idea this become wonderful with the aid of each and every bodies criteria , yet to my marvel i stumbled on a number of my associates having sex on the age of 14-15 , i idea this turned right into a once off component , yet i become incorrect , considering i lost my virginity i realized what number those that i idea i knew were having sex , the most intense case become at the same time as i become 17 , stumbled on out my little sisters pal had sex with a youthful boy , they were both 12 , i requested what the hell you doing , and that i have been given a reply affirming all there different associates are doing it , so as that they idea that they had supply it a go , quickly i'd be seeing a 12 twelve months previous with a infant
2016-12-06 12:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually answered yourself. It's hormones, it's rude and they don't care. But from all of this you will learn how to screen them for a serious relationship when you are ready to have one. I hope that's wayyyyy in the future 'cause right now they are looking to collect experience and bragging rights to "how many girls I did". Actually most men will live their entire life thinking this way. But remember that you are more mature than them. Right now they have the maturity of a seven year old maybe. Be careful, be wise and look forward to a College degree.
2006-08-13 20:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dolf-Wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because humans have something called a sexual peak. When sex your hormones rage the most and you want sex the most. It's very strange because men hit their peak decades before women. A boy's sexual peak usual hits between 14-18 while a woman will not hit her sexual peak until her 40's. I don't know why this is, but that's just how God made us. So I hope that answered your question.
2006-08-13 20:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Carmen C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in today's world sex is the predominent thought for boys. it is mainly due to a lack of moral fortitude, and not being held accountable for their action. this applies to both sexes. in the past, sex was not so publicly addressed, but was just a prevalent. paid services often kept things down, but it is frowned on today as immoral. what a stupid attitude, don't you think? as for caring, most don't realize the responsibility should be first consideration. as for not thinking about relatioships, most boys that age are to young to understand what a relationship means, unless sex is involved. today's television and movie offerings don't help, either.
2006-08-13 20:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good for u stil bein single u got plenty of time for all that and its really good hearing some1 ur age sayin they are waitin for a boy who wants to have a relationship witout all the sex part, i think boys jus automatically think girls will say yes because they dont want to b laughed at or not look cool which is ridiculous cos in the end they jus guna look like complete s.l.u.t.s, well done for stickin to ur guns girly, try gettin it into other girls ur age its wrong to do x
2006-08-13 21:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that age, you must show your mates that you're more than them, you must impress them. That means, more expensive clothes, iPods, talks about cars and girls, and sex with girls.
We men are simple, but women are just like the same.
2006-08-13 21:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think too much . its a common problm for most of the girl and women in todays world. i knw its extrmly rude. i say u to inform and consult with ur parents.
2006-08-13 20:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by njoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And...why is it that most girls and boys ( throughout their teens) do not seem to understand that neither one (and especially boys) are not yet, mentally, emotionally, and psychologicly ready for any kind of REAL emotional commitment that a relationship requires. Whether YOU think so or NOT....you're NOT....neither one of YOU!
2006-08-13 20:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
their just horny and cant help it i remember my bf at 13 14 15 and 16 and that was like all he wanted to untill i turned 16 and then he was fine even though by this time he was 17
2006-08-13 20:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Frank Iero from MCR is HOT!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋