Men and there trust..?

Question

do any of you feel like the trust word is a trick word for let me **** around and u sit home and pretend like nothing is happening? my lover told me that i need to have lil more trust and i need to just chill , but its always doing nothing wrong. but yet and still i keep finding used condom packs in our car , and the blame is reversed on its my friend she and her boyfriend was gettin it on in the back seat. am i stupid or what if i believe that lie ?

Answer 1

i think you need an upgrade

Answer 2

You poor thing.
Have you ever considered a private investigator or a nanny cam in the car? Both could be well worth the peace of mind.
Why would your friend be getting it on in your car? Did you loan it to her? More than once? Does the timing of loaning her the car match up with finding the condom wrappers. I mean, if you found a wrapper a month after your friend supposedly had sex in it, that seems a little unlikely. You would have found it long before then. See what I mean?
Good luck, I really wish you the best. Remember there are many great guys out there, you don't have to settle for one that will cheat.

Answer 3

i personally dont trust anyone because i have been f*cked over so many times and i have realized that you should always listen to your gut feeling because it never fails you. n most of the time wen someone says you need to trust me more it means that they know ur not stupid and they're trying to trick you into believing their story. let me put it this way, if you ask a liar are you lying to me do you think they will say yes?

Answer 4

He knows you care for him,so he is going to continue this blame game until you get tired of it I've been there and done that And then I got fed up' you know what I mean? Life truly is too short to play silly games with ones heart and health. Sometimes we have to call it quits. Well Have a Blessed Life and read your Bible everyday

Answer 5

sounds like it. other the spying on him or haveing some on else do it. you need a list of when and wher he was. and when the rubbers showed up. and your lover sucks ***. ask his friends. but if thay sad it was thers i wouldent trust them and what knid of person would let others f in his car. exspeshely if thay dont clean it up. he might think that if it stoped after you found the first one you would know he was lieing.

Answer 6

Anyone can fail and cause mistrust.
That is why we take vows, in order to say to all present that you are in it with that person through it all.
We all come into marriage with baggage and oftentimes it requires work including pain, forgiveness, counseling and change.
Usually, it is our own self who needs to self examine and get things in check, however, both partners must come to a place where they can admit wrongs, ask for forgiveness and relinquish those parts of our flawed character to God in order to restore trust.
That kind of stuff.

Answer 7

you are stupid if keep on believing every words that your spouse said.

Answer 8

not an excellent lie....tell him next time be an expert lier!

Answer 9

if u dont trust him
dump him

Answer 10

nah