When the heartache is over... ?

Question

Now that the most of my heartache is over (and although it's been 8 months and I still miss him a lot) I've followed some advice about keeping myself preoccupied and meeting new friends and going out and having fun and all that... When does the heartache really just go away and not think of him?

Also - I've got so many male friends (girls seem to be quite cautious of me and some find me intimidating) I am currently the only girl in a group of 5/6 guys? I feel so OUT sometimes? How can I keep this from happening????? Why are girls so 'carefull' of me? I know I am quite attractive but that doesn't mean I can't be a friend?!!!

Somebody HELP ME PLEASE?

Answer 1

Well honey really no one can tell you how long the heartache will last. I have been there and done that too. I recently got divorced and the night after I told him I still loved him I went to the house to move the rest of my things and found he had moved another woman in with him. I guess after the tears were over I figured I was better than that and decided that day that I would move on with my life. I started to talk to this gentleman on line that had been trying to talk to me for a while and it has been a few months now and he and I have so much in common. As for the women that stay clear of you. I was always able to get along better with the opposite sex. The girls always thought I was a threat to them. I really wasn't. I never wanted what they had. So you just get on with your life sweetie and don't let any of them cut you down. Keep a prayer in your heart and I will keep one in mine for you.

Answer 2

the heartache is over when you find a new guy.

Answer 3

forget those girls, have fun hanging out with the guys

Answer 4

their own insecurities.