I am a virgin and i'm about to have my first time and i was wondering that it might hurt, how would you guys treat me, like rough or gentle because i am very scared!
2006-08-13 19:38:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
if it was your first time and you were having sex with me i would go gentle on you because i would want you to have a good time and you wouldnt have a good time if i was hurting you and i would feel bad for hurting you
2006-08-13 20:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's always first time, 2nd time and so on and so forth. If you really are virgin, you need not worry. Just to sump up, how many guys do you like to sleep with on your first time? If the answer is one and only one, he will treat you like a queen. I for one, will even spare you for the first 2 nights but then on the third night - it's my night so you get the picture, right? Go ahead and have fun all night long on your first try, ok. I am a man so I know that what a girl or a woman feels on that night, no man can understand it her way and that is the beauty of this modern civilisation.
2006-08-14 03:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by salimdist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world are you asking us. We aren't going to be there. Or are we?
Seriously girly, this is a big decision. One you can't take back.
Your first time should be on your wedding night with some guy you're gonna spend the rest of your life with.
you seem young the way you word things so I'll guess 16.
This "guy" isn't gonna be around long. If he only wants you for your body, he will soon split and you'll be left feeling used.
I know cuz I had friends in high school who did that. They came to school the next day and told the other guys all the details.
Guess what they thought of the girl?
Don't go there.
2006-08-14 03:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Harley Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i am doing it with you definitely gentle at first but you will ask yourself to be rough. I promise.
I can melt you like wax i bet. Give me your adress.
2006-08-14 02:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very gently and after lots of foreplay to make sure that you become properly lubricated before penetration which is likely to hurt a bit ( rupturing of hymen ) before it turns into pleasure.
2006-08-14 02:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by zube 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my experience, it would definitely be a slow and romantic experience starting with a private candle light dinner!!
2006-08-14 02:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait longer. You want a stranger's input. Should be asking him how he plans to act. Wait just a little longer.
2006-08-14 02:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rick N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gurl, it always hurts on the first time.....then it becomes better....and better and even more better. Just do it. You'll luv it.
2006-08-14 02:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by green r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gentle, gentle, gentle, and with lots of lubrication.
2006-08-14 02:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by huuummmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont wanna get hurt, tell the guy to f*u*c*k u gently...
2006-08-14 02:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by CuteGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋