what would you tell your 11 year old son if he asked you about girls kicking boys in the nuts?

Question

my son asked such questions today. he's 11, and saw a girl in our neighborhood kick a boy there for the first time in real life, and i think it was an eye opener. he asked me if i ever have, and i told him the truth (i have, in 5th grade), and when he asked why i kind of punted because i was embarassed that it was so insignificant (kid called me some name, prol *****). i think he was grasping of what level of offense could lead to such a think - but heck, at a certain age i remember girls doing it on the barest of pretexts. not saying its right - but what do you tell the kid?

Answer 1

You are allways asking this question, go seek professional help!

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very extreme trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation.
-It even may cause death as result of pain, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail until it stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”. The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year lather! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All the men that like the fetish called “ballbusting”, like it because it happened to them in the past, they are physiologically very ill, it may change his life completely. The emotional trauma or the physical suffering or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be enough for girls not to do that; but the truth is that the only thing that make some think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to escape harm. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you, not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy. Why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you.
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools, girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women.
Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh!
-And nothing happens to these sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

Answer 2

Tell hm -> "Hands off!!". Keep away from him - he's developing hormones and the both of you could end up in, really, bad trouble especially if you are "alone". If he can't say something to you in a place where other people are present then his motives are not good. And - although he's, only, 11 ... see link below.

Answer 3

Tell him to protect himself at all costs. Besides being extremely painful this can result in hospitalization and permanent damage. To protect himself tell him to do three things in rapid succession. Spread his legs, drop to a semi-crouching position then lock his legs tightly together. If these moves are done right they will result in his testicles being protected by, depending on how far they hang down, being trapped behind his closed legs or between his legs. Finally, he should tell all the girls he knows that this is a valuable form of protection for them but it should only be used for self defense when the girl thinks her life or sexual integrity are threatened, never as a game.

Answer 4

Tell him its inexcuseable and to tell an adult when it happens. No kid deserves to be kicked in the nuts, especially since it can lead to sterilization if its bad enough. That its not taken more seriously by most people is beyond me.

Answer 5

tell him that it's really never right to react to a verbal provocation with violence but also explain why girls this age do it and why you did it. tell him you're just explaining because you want him to understand what he's seeing in the case that he does see this again (which he probably will in more severe cases as he's probably about to enter middle school)..but also remind him that it's not right... i guess that's all you can do. :0/

Answer 6

Tell him to never provoke anyone, be it boy or girl,so that it never happens to him. But if he can't help contain himself (since kids usually don't listen or forget) and still wants to bother someone then tell him to keep his distance. Emphasis on respectfulness towards other people.

Answer 7

i would tell im it hurts really bad and avoid being hit there as much as possible but being hit there is a kind of pain every guy experiences. Also if his dad is around have him talk to him about it because you cant explain it as well as a man who has experienced it

Answer 8

Tell him that it's a bad thing for them to be doing. It's just like any other form of violence. There is NO excuse!

Answer 9

no the boy did not deserve it! no boy deserves to have the possibility of not having children, just tell him it is mean and she should not have done it because she was prolly mad and didn't know how to show it in a calm manor

(can you believe I'm only thirteen!)




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Answer 10

tell him not to do that cuz it really hurts or atleast my bf says it does