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I had sex w/ my bf and he said that he didn't *** but my period is 2 days late and I'm getting parinoid..I took 3 at home pregnacy tests and they all came back negative and I even took one in the morning to make sure it was accurate...I dont know if me stressing out about it is making easier cuz I heard if ur under alot of stress it can be delayed...do u think I am ? what should I do ...

2006-08-13 19:18:48 · 30 answers · asked by Cam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

30 answers

Calm down. And think clearly. For starters, if you end up not being pregnant, just remember how you feel right now, and tell yourself you must never get into this situation until you're (mature) and ready to deal with it.

If you have a good relationship with your parents (or one of their brothers / sisters), talk to them.

OK -- you said you've taken 4 tests -- all negative. Yeah, you are overstressing.

Don't bother with Planned Parenthood. They are totally one-sided when it comes to these issues. PP essentially works with the Abortion Industry -- a billion dollar machinery that has no interest in life -- just collecting bounties on dead babies.

Please calm down. And remember these feelings the next time you get intimate. Your whole life is ahead of you. Are you ready to be a parent? Sex is wonderful. And so is being a mom.

But it's not wonderful if you're ready to accept the consequences.

2006-08-13 19:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sage 5 · 0 1

First you need to stop worrying so much. 2 days late is not a concern for panic. But you should monitor it closely.

Your boyfriend doesn't have to *** as most young males have what is called pre-*** and sperm is in it. It is possible that you could be pregnant. If you are not count you blessing and I hope you remember how you feel at this moment.

It is obvious you two are having sex. Then if you are going to play adult games, for God Sake act like adults. Go to a clinic or doctor have a checkup, ask for birth control pills or the patch. Untill then make sure your boyfriend wear a condom.

Oh by the way. It takes two to tango so please share this with your boyfriend too. He needs to worry as much as you do. Also it will show you what kind of man or boy he is.

If you are pregnant, you need to tell you parents, it will be the hardess thing to do in the world for you at the time. But then need to know, so you can be helped.

If you are not pregnant, i hope you are not, then get protected.

Good luck

2006-08-13 19:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hon.. first of all, you need to calm down. i know that you're young, but periods do change a lot. and stress can delay your period... if you are pregnant, you should wait another week before taking a home pregnancy test... those things are not 100%accurate with early detection. the pregnancy test is checking if you have a special hormone in your body, and it may take a while for that hormone to produce enough to show up positive.

2006-08-13 19:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by retro 3 · 0 0

Well the best way to find out is to go to the doctor but I'd say that after 3 or 4 home pregnancy tests means that you're not pregnant. I don't think a home pregnancy test would be wrong that many times.

2006-08-13 19:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you took three tests and they're all negative then you're probably not PG. However. Even if he doesn't come you still need to use a condom - every. single. time.

And yes, stressing about not getting it can delay it further. Grow a little common sense, relax and use protection so that you don't have to worry like this again.

PS - there are much worse things than getting pregnant - like herpes, chlamydia and AIDS.

2006-08-13 19:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Red 4 · 0 0

Wait a few days and take the test again. Also:

- You should not have unprotected sex with your boyfriend. You are making yourself very STD and pregnancy prone.

- You should understand that your boyfriend cannot control whether he ejaculates inside of you. Even if he withdraws, his preseminal fluid can get you pregnant.

- If you're not pregnant, you can consider yourself lucky. I really don't get how people can mess around with someone as important as their health and pregnancy. Do you think you are ready and willing to be a mother? Do you think your boyfriend will be a good father to your baby?

2006-08-13 19:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0 0

First, calm down. Wait. There is no way to tell if you're pregnant for a little while (until you're about a week late), and in the meantime you're wasting your money on pregnancy tests. Talk to your doctor or a crisis pregnancy center if you need reassurance or other information.

And don't have unprotected sex. Your boyfriend doesn't have to ejaculate for you to get pregnant. There are sperm on the penis just from getting an erection... which is good for both of you to know!

And if it turns out that you are pregnant, please please PLEASE choose to have the baby (remember, adoption is an option)! You are quite literally saving a life if you do! Being pregnant when you're young sucks in a lot of ways, but I've never heard a person say they regretted keeping their baby, while I've heard a ton of people regret not doing so. Just think about it, please.

2006-08-13 19:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy K 3 · 0 1

the reason you have missed your period is because of your stress. stop stressing, you've taken the test, they have came back negative, no worries...just relax, take a deep breath and don't sweat it, your period will start. being a few days late doesn't mean your pregnant.

2006-08-13 19:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stress and worrying that you may be pregnant, does seem to delay periods, give it a few more weeks, then go to a Dr

2006-08-13 19:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Amy S 4 · 0 0

count 14 days frome the first day of your cycle 2 days before and two days after the 5 day being the fith day being the most fertiel is the most likely time to get pregnent. and yes stress can make you late.

2006-08-13 19:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by brakedown61301 4 · 0 0

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