I love a girl called Shivani Potuhera since 1988. She loved me back then too. I lost touch with her after leaving the country for overseas studies. When I returned, I could not find her. After searching for about 2 years and failing, I married someone else in 1996. I recently learned of her location in Sri Lanka. I called her number a couple of times just to hear her voice. I still love her. I know that.
Should I talk with her and say that I love her? Will she say that she loves me?
2006-08-13 19:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by LookingForShivani 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I recently met with someone I was very much in love with many years ago and vice versa. We found that we were very different people and I cannot speak for him, but I was very disappointed. She might have gone on with her life. You made a commitment with someone else and you should devote yourself to your wife. The person you loved in 1988 no longer exists; all people change over time.
2006-08-13 19:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't do that. Call her if your intention is somewhat friendly. But to call her just to say you still love her is only to hurt her; especially now that you're married to somebody else. What do you suppose to say, you'd leave your wife and marry her? Does she even know you're already married?
The way I understand it in your story, there was no communication between yourselves while you're studying abroad. I'd say, it's your fault. While you were away, you should've sent her letters or called her regularly to keep track of her. She would've told you where she has been or where she is moving. Therefore, your intention of finding her will rather backfire at you -- Where were you?
I also see that you care less about your wife... you shouldn't have married her if your former GF would still be stuck in your... whatever.
Good luck, dude.
2006-08-14 00:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your wife? Aren't you in love with her since you married her. Chances are the other girl might be in another relationship and then playing with fire is not the solution. You are creating a triangle and will need to deal with the consequences. Think about it.
2006-08-13 19:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a really sweet story, but i think that because you are married now that you should leave shivani alone. this is not fair to your wife and if shivani is married, it wouldn't be fair to her and her husband. you need to love your wife the way you love shivani, this is the right thing to do.
2006-08-13 19:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 16:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you screwing your married life, you are commented to another woman and how can you tell someone that you love her. Why you married another girl just fore sex than if you don't love her.
I really hate people like you who doesn't have clue what they are doing in there life.
What if your GF is married, how many lives you are going to screw.
2006-08-13 19:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married now. Unless you're willing to divorce your wife and marry this girl, then you shouldn't contact her. If she still loves you, it won't be fair for you to pursue her. You will just hurt both your wife and this girl.
2006-08-13 19:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Thot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! but please also tell her that you are married but firts b4 you tell her you still love her ask her if she is married or you will make a complete fool of yourself good luck!
2006-08-13 19:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will b most unfair 2 ur wife.
what if u were in her shoes?
2006-08-13 19:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dreaming and move on with what you have now....and don't dig your own grave by contacting her!
2006-08-13 19:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋