hey i need a straight forward answer to the question... im not asking for an opinion of what im thinking is ryt or wrong...i reaaly cant have a baby...period...anyone who can give me precise answer...thank you very much....mwah...
2006-08-13 18:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by menel_rotoni 1 in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
ya..you're not looking for opinion..i am pregnant, and will be 42 when i give brith. I already have two grown ups...when i learned i was pregnant, i just thought of how many women are tyring to get pregnant and can't. I accept this as blessing from the Lord. I have friends who underwent abortion and afterwards, she can't have peace because what she did haunts her. Others even for decades. You don't have the right to kill a life! No matter what your reason is to get rid of it. It will haunt you for life and you'll regret it. I warn you... get help instead how to have a safe pregnancy. Jesus loves you. One wrong committed is not reason enough to commit another wrong. God gives us second chance, ALWAYS! I will pray for you. Whoever you are, and whatever situation you're in that made you want to kill your baby. You may had a bad start in life, but you need not have a bad ending. Take care
2006-08-13 18:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by babes t 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, don't know. Do know you were mature enough to get into this scrape. Now you need to be mature about getting out of it. You don't want a baby. Okay. So it's already there. Sorry. Have it and give it up for adoption. Contact an adoption agency. All your expenses will be paid, quite comfortably if you negotiate right. I have heard of people selling their babies (but the legal words make it seem like something quite different).
If you are going to abort, then go to a women's health clinic and have it done properly. If you don't get ALL the placenta out, if there is even a TEENY TINY bit of it retained, you will have ongoing menstrual problems such as passing huge clots of blood at most inopportune moments. You will be sick, you will continue to have some pregnancy symptoms, your periods will be completely out of sync and your body will feel like crap.
If you think that taking medication to abort a baby is a way out, think again. If there is some big social stigma to your being pregnant, then think of what it would be like if you take this stuff and make everything so bad that you end up hospitalized? (Or even that you pass a huge blood clot -- and no you won't know when it will happen -- at your snooty cousin's wedding, with everyone looking at just you [just an example]).
If there is some social stigma that keeps you from being able to hold your head up and say "damn, I didn't mean for this to happen, but it did, and I'm going to be an adult about it... and take care of the baby the best way that I can... even if that means giving it up for adoption," then you aren't old enough to prop your legs open. With the steam sometimes comes the heat, and honey, you're in it. Grow up and deal with this like a woman.
2006-08-13 21:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to take the advice of someone over the internet? Someone you don't even know? If you don't want the baby go to Planned Parenthood or just call and talk to them. Someone there will be able to help you. They will be on your side and will be looking out for you. Otherwise you might end up not only aborting the baby but doing a lot of damage to yourself.
2006-08-16 10:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by sagerider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moral issues aside, aborting a baby isn't something you do on your own. You could quite literally kill yourself along with the baby. At the least, you could permanently screw up your reproductive system or end up needing a blood transfusion.
Find another way to deal with this!!
2006-08-14 02:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have this baby period! You can't want to die either! Your talking total foolishness!!!!!! You were the one who got yourself in this situation it's not the baby'f fault! Grow up and face the consequences. And NO one is going to give you the precise answer or that child blood is on their hands as well as yours. It's murder!!!!!
2006-08-14 03:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Skeeter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you have this baby???
Do you think you can not afford it? This is called sacrafice, which is a mothers true love.
If you did not want our opinion then you should have saved this question for you doctor only!!!
2006-08-13 18:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This isn't an issue where you want to seek advice on the internet. Please see a doctor or nurse practitioner. Please accept the responsibility to take care of yourself and consult a local medical professional.
2006-08-15 06:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by ohio healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may vary from person to person. i thnk u shud consult a proffesional gyno doctor or a nurse...thngs can get messy othrwise.
2006-08-13 18:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by mihika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, SEE A DOCTOR.
2006-08-13 18:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Norton N 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋