I know this guy, and we always used to talk and flirt and stuff. Someone set him up with this ***** who most people hate. I`m almost 100% sure that she told him to stop talking to me, I won`t go into detail. A few weeks later they broke up and we started talking again. She was really jealous. She told him a flat out lie that I said he only went out with her to make me jealous. He got mad and said something to me about it. Well, even my friends who hate him agree that we`re a match made in heaven, but we`re both hot heads, so that turned into a huge arguement/cursing match and we haven`t spoken in a while. Well somewhere between all this I fell in love with him. He started going out with her again when we stopped talking. My friends saw him making himself throw up at the fair. I know he likes me a lot, but after over overly dramatic history, I don`t know what to do, but I can`t do nothing, I`m definately not that type of person. I usually handle things well, but emtions aren`t helping.
2006-08-13 17:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thank you guys for the relationship advice. I really appreciate it and I do want people to keep giving me this advice because I`m sure it`ll help. Though it would be really hard to just let go.
I also want some advice on what to do about him being bulimic. It kills me to just sit back and watch him hurt himself, but its not an easy thing to drop into conversation and I don`t know if he`d listen anyway. I don`t know what to do, and like I said, I don`t do nothing, its just not something I do especially involving people I care about.
I wasn`t sure if for some reason this part didn`t show up on the question so I`ll show it again >>> "My friends saw him making himself throw up at the fair."
2006-08-13 18:15:13 · update #1
Are you sure you saw him making himself throw up and that he wasn't just sick or something? Also, are you sure it wasn't a one time thing? If you are sure of both these things - before you do anything about your relationship - you need to get him help.
I would suggest going to a school counselor or an adult you both trust and talking about what you saw. You have to make sure he gets help.
After he gets help, he mioght realize all that you did saved his life. Which would REALLY help the relationship. :D
To be honest, though, he doesn't sound like he's worth it. If he believed and chose this girl over you, you are way better than he is. Forget him, you can do better.
2006-08-14 11:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and apologize for allowing your emotions to get the better of you the last time you spoke and for letting your last meeting degenerate into a cursing match.
Tell him that you like him and that you would like to remain friends with him, and that you want him to be happy, no matter what.
Don't put the other girl down or say anything negative about her. Don't say anything about her at all, in fact, which shows that you are too classy to engage in gossip and pettiness. Just concentrate the conversation on you and him.
After that, it's up to him to make the next move, but atleast you won't be left wondering "what if?"...
2006-08-14 01:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say " when you love someone set him free, if he comes back he is yours. If it does he never will be". If he really like's you he will come back. Make him attracted to you. I am a guy and i know how it works for us. Wear nice dresses, try to be friendly with your friend. Share a loud laugh when he is around, you need to make him jealous of you. Pass a smile to him, may be he is doing it on purpose.
If he doesn't respond after all this forget him and look for someone else. He is not worth for it.
2006-08-14 00:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many great guys out there, why do you want the only one you cannot have? or the one you have not much things in common? Let him go, lets see if he comes back... You cannot go after him, you are a woman, ignore him, he´ll come back.
2006-08-14 00:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by eduardoarias_93 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its not really easy to tackle such a situation. but u should not use ur brains here. if the guy really likes u then he should sho w some kind of gesture which u will be able to read u can. may be u can take help frm a frnd. that is if u wan to
2006-08-14 00:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by sexy gal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself and if he chooses not to believe you you are better off without him. You want a man who will believe you over others if you want a chance at happiness.
2006-08-20 02:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing you could do is let him know how you feel if he feels the same way he'll come to you , if he don't get over him!and about the throwing up thing ,maybe he just wanted to go on more rides without throwing up on the ride and embarrassing himself
2006-08-18 09:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by marcialee_1968 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to put yourself out there and tell him how you feel. The way he handles that conversation will be your answer.
2006-08-14 00:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by designer_bunnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two hot heads = bad relationship. give it up. find someone else, there are millions of other guys out there.
2006-08-14 00:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hows he gonna know how you feel unless you tell him?
2006-08-14 00:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by blacksheep0685 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋