She is one of those on again off again friends
one day she is my best friend
the next day she is a total b****
we will make plans on the phone
and when i get there so we can have fun
she isnt even there
she made other plans and found something more fun to do
she is a total sweetheart when we are alone hanging out
when we get around other ppl she ignores me
and she becomes totally different
should i stay friends with her?
or should i dump her *** like she has with me?
2006-08-13 17:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have been best friends with her since i was 3
2006-08-13 17:41:20 · update #1
Yes u should still be friends with her.
2006-08-14 07:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by katelen59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be her friend. A true friend is there for you when you need them, not just there when they need/want you. You need to respect yourself and step-off. She will either realize how she has treated you and feel bad for it, or she will keep doing it to other people and one day will be without friends. Either way you will be out of it, and she will not keep getting your hopes up and letting them down and hurting your feelings. Just remember the saying " what goes around, comes around". Stop letting her use you! You was not put in this world to be used. No one was. And the ones that think people are, are very wrong and are bad people to be around. Just be yourself, and you will find better friends. Actual friends!
Hope this helps!
2006-08-13 17:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Dump her ***. remember this... I good friend will come bail you out of jail, but a true friend will be sitting in that same cell with you laughing and saying that was great! I have a friend just like that and its not worth it. I dont talk to her anymore and my life is so stress free.!
2006-08-13 17:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by leslieh338 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't wanna be friends with her then might as well end it sooner than later. I had a friend like that and I think everyone I know that has a friend like that eventually stops being friends with them. The friends that are actually gonna last will be the genuine ones that don't treat you like sh*t. I'm pretty sure this friendship won't last that long anyway.
2006-08-13 17:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Doobles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just blow her off, she won't change and it sounds like she enjoys messing with you. Move on and stop wasting your time, there are a lot of better best friends out there.
2006-08-13 17:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by LiNdSaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't a person you should call friend. Dump her and find someone who knows what the word friend means.
2006-08-13 17:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump. End of story. Respect yourself if you expect others to do the same.
2006-08-13 17:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang sounds like to me....u need to find a new Best Friend... Cuz .. thats juss messed up : P
2006-08-13 17:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Being friends take tolerence and underastanding. Why dont you talk to her. You can both work through this together.
2006-08-13 17:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like she is useing you .Dump her ASAP
2006-08-13 17:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋