LAdies today me and my boyfriend broke up out of a 2 year relationship, and its killing me inside, i want to get over him can you give me some advice?
2006-08-13 17:30:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, let me tell you this me and my kids dad broke up and you talk about HURT I was. But guess what God was only in the grave three days and after that He got up. So yes, you are entitled to cry and yes cry and let it out. Then get up wash your face and go on with your life. Yes, it is still going to hurt but don't let him stop you from moving on with your life you are a powerful woman!!! Be strong my sister, Be Strong.
2006-08-14 16:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by mspsalms23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll take some time. You can't just forget two years in a day. Sometimes you can't forget two weeks in a day. Surround yourself with friends who understand that you are hurting, lean on them for a bit. Put away the pictures and momentos, you can look at them again when it's not so painful, like in a year. Keep yourself busy, don't sit around dwelling on him or the memories, or how lonely you are. If those thoughts come up, call a friend immediately, and find something to laugh about. We've all been through it, it hurts. But it will get better.
2006-08-14 00:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to be o.k,at the same time are you sure nothing can be resolved if not do things you love but weren't able to because of the commitment go to movies,develope a new hobbie.look for friends you prpbably laid low because of whatever reason.,just try not to be home too much which could cause you to sink in depression,maybe you two just need space ,you might be back in love b4 you know it but if not remember "its good to have being loved once than never to be loved at all' and move on allow yourself to get over and not be bitter and try again.if you feel like calling sometimes call ,you will see how quickly you get over it with the right attitude.one love.
2006-08-14 00:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by sexyjamaicanbabe24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is going to be hard time will be the only thing that will help you . other then that get away from the computer and take a walk take up a hobby or do something remain busy and active mind is better then a painful heart. I am sorry to hear about your break up
2006-08-14 00:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get over an old pair of shoes is to buy a new pair
2006-08-14 00:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋