I'm going to talk to my boyfriend in a little while. I have been dating him a couple months...we are in our late twenties, we are serious about each other.
Well, when he calls me in a few minutes, I want to say something to him (not sexual...I know where this may go..lol) to just melt his heart. Something that makes him feel wonderful about himself, about us, about me.
What is something a woman you care about could say that would make you feel like a million bucks...besides I love you, and again, anything sexual. Thanks ahead of time for your input.
2006-08-13 17:15:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my husband says.... to let him know you appreciate him you really appreciate the things he does for you, how he makes you happy. You are happy when you are with him etc etc... I hope that helps a little
2006-08-13 17:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ CRISSY â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without it being corny, theres one thing you can do. Basically say something along the lines of the following *even though its not a true situation*
Remember: Men are physical creatures and unemotional ones, things that will make them feel appreciated are knowing they are the best basically.
Tell him:
Tell him that an old friend/or you heard from a family member that their husband/boyfriend completed devistated them. Tell him the guy mistreated her and she didn't know whether she should stay with him. You told her/her friend to tell her, that you have been through alot of relationships. Theres no point in going through all that hell, because eventually she will meet a man like the one you have.
Basically a way of saying, you are the best man and better than this guy... he will appreciate it.
2006-08-13 17:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Love, you have this power over me, this indescribable, undeniable, unmistakable power. You consume my mind. You invade my thoughts. You are the ruler of my dream world. You bring a smile to my face, a sparkle to my eyes, and a tear to my cheek.
Your voice is like a sweet song, I am hearing for the first time. You take my breath away, with the simplest things your lips utter. You make me feel weightless, as though I could float up, and touch the heavens above. You make me look at life through new eyes, eyes that have never seen the light of day, until now. I feel as though I am using all my senses, for the first time, and suddenly everything I once knew, is now unfamiliar to me. You fill every cell in my being, with joy, love and happiness. You make me want to stand up, and scream at the top of my lungs, "I love you, more than words could say." You make my heart soar, like a bird in flight. But most of all... you are you, and I love that.
It is this intense power you have over me, which gives me strength, hope, and new meaning. You are my sun, my moon, my evening star, my light, my life, my love. You are my destiny. You are "The One", the only one, the man I love. As I write this poem for you, I find the words come naturally to me. It's as if this pen is an extension of my heart, and my heart is guiding it across the paper. Every letter, every word, every stroke, is meant to be ... as we are.
2006-08-13 17:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I really don't have enough information on your "love life" or your "personal life" to give a good read, but what does EVERYONE WANT TO HEAR?
That their wanted, needed and loved, and of COURSE, sexually attractive!
Why does everyone spend the "big bucks" on plastic surgery, well its not really for bigger lips, its so that people will think they're sexy and attractive, you can instill this in him with just a few words a day, and he'll love you much more for upbuilding him!
So, how do YOU WANT TO BE TREATED AND WHAT DO "YOU" WANT TO HEAR? Just turn it around, you know him and how he reacts, just play it "by ear." Respond to his "responses" accordingly. He'll love it!
2006-08-13 17:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to tell you something that has been in my heart about you, which I hold dearly close. Please let me let it out now because I think it is important for you to know how I hold my most inner feelings about you. I trust you so much and these inner feelings I have for you are at most sacred to me. I want you to hear my inner sole, understand how I think of you. I cherish these thoughts of you inside me. I love you and I love you in a way that is beyond what any words could truly say. The man you are today is who I have wanted, waited for, dreamed of. The father you will become to my children, I can see as the great man who will guide them to a better path. Each time I look into your eyes I see you, the true person hiding inside who can see me, the true me. You understand me. I love who you are. The way you think, the way you talk, the way you care for me. I do not take you for granted as you will not me, promise me this. We are meant for each other that is far from what any other person will ever have. I feel what you feel, I see what you see. We are both meant for each other and on my dying day I will love you with my last breath. If in our life time we make mistakes, fight, do onto each other any bad things, I want you to know something; I will not be mad at you, I will not curse at you. Forgive me if it takes me time to get over any ordeal. I trust in you that you will give me the space as I will you to cool off, laugh it off. It will take time to understand each other; I trust you and I will wait for you to understand me. I really love you so much. You are a man and i love you as the women who will be there for you always.
2006-08-13 17:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by RivenPhoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple. Tell him that he makes you feel better than any other man has. A man truly wants to just know that you appreciate him and believe in him and to satisfy his competitive side, you tell him he is the best ever. It doesn't have to be sexual at all. Just sincere.
2006-08-13 17:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the approach. Hey Honey did I ever tell you that I can't live without you, that every time I see you, you are but a very few people who brings a smile to my face. That should do it. I guy likes to feel wanted and needed at the same time. Thanks for asking and Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-13 17:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about this question on Yahoo Answers, and then read aloud what rsuavez66 wrote. with PASSION, but in a silly way. IF he's the kind of guy who will appreciate it.
2006-08-13 17:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Flopsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if he loves you then all you have to do is to let him know how much you care about him. But...honestly....the cherry on top would be an offering of a sex. It wouldn't cheapen it at all and he would get exponentially happier until he gets to see you.
2006-08-13 17:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i think you should say is whatever comes to your mind.. dont be all mushy and keep telling him that you love him and you dont kno what you would do without him... just tell him how you feel about him.. and how things have changed for you ever since he has came into your life.. Be honest.. Be real... dont make up things that you kno is not true...
2006-08-13 17:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by LoVe To SHop!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋