OK i was at the movies with my friend jorden jessica and boy friend randy im 13 and he's twelve ok this shook me a bit he turns hugs me and kisses my face a little later he wants to make out i was so scard i didnt did i do the right thing i mean i'm only 13 and he's 12 and trying to make out with me i did'nt do it i mean were to young and a nother thing wowed me a twelve year old is trying to make out with me shouldent i wont to make out with him isnt that strang im 13 and he's twevle i was scard i was shacken did i do theright thing???!!!
2006-08-13 17:05:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am going to let those closer to your age answer this one for you, but as a Mom, I want to say you did the right thing. I am proud of you.
2006-08-13 17:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR TOOOOOOOOOOOOO Young to be making out with boys and if you think making out with any boy especially one you don't know is cool you need to have your head checked and work on getting a better self esteem keep yourself till from making out with boys until your at the very least 15 and don't let a man get in your pants until you are ready to have kids because even if you do it only once then you can have a child and at 15 your not able to care for a baby even if you think you are and want to have one. Take care number one yourself and remember don't do anything that you think your parents would be ashamed to know you did
2006-08-14 00:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen you did the smartest thing that anyone could have done in that situation. not many 13 year olds will actually admit that they're scared of making out and when in an awkward situation not make out.
and secondly, the boy is only 12 .... years..... old. got it. he's getting his hormones all revved up at weird times.
never do anthing without thinking of the reprecussions(if you had made out with him, believe me, you would have ragretted it for a long time)
2006-08-14 00:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by carrot cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A general rule: one of the human race traits is liberty... which means ==> the ability to choose between doing or not something. If, according to your own scale of values, morals and likes and dislikes, you consider that making out with someone younger at the age of 13... and you decide not to do it...you are exerting your condition of human being... thus you did the right thing.
2006-08-14 00:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Royal Flush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did!! You are mature enough to know that twelve year old boys are entirely too young to be making out!! Good job on not doing it. Wait at least a couple of years to have your first kiss...it will mean so much more to you!! Good luck!! :)
2006-08-14 00:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by potentially_perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha wow that is the longest sentence ive seen all day. umm yeah u did the right thing thats a little bold of a 12 year old, and if ur not ready to do that then dont, itll save u drama, and ur too young for that
2006-08-14 00:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by retard_detector903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i myself am a 21 yr old married man and i think you made the right decision. at your age you should take things slow and not want to rush into things, they will happen over time and you have plenty of time. Just try to tell him you want to wait a while and if the young man isn't willing to wait then i would dump him because no one at your age should have to be dealing with that.
2006-08-14 00:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by draco_401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were 13 i wouldn't have been into it at all. it just depends on when you're comfortable. i knew guys that liked me and asked me out when i was around 12, but i totally didn't care about guys yet, i just wanted to play kickball, watch tv, etc...
my first kiss wasn't until 16, so if you're not ready, relax.
besides, sometimes, kissing and all that can be a real pain, you should delay it until you find someone you really like and would be comfortable kissing
2006-08-14 00:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that only you can answer. If you feel that you are too young, then you did the right thing. Listen to yourself, only you can tell what you are ready for. Dont worry about what others are doing, you have plenty of time to decide when you are ready. Dont rush it.
2006-08-14 00:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel pressured to show affection in that way with anyone. It doesn't matter if he is 12 or 14. You want to save your love for the man who is going to be your husband and not "spread it around" to just anyone before that.
2006-08-14 00:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋