hes treated me lke **** since last school year started!!! he called me names nd ignored me in the hallways after 3 years of friendship nd everytime i wanna tlk 2 him i have 2 do it on someone else's sn nd if anyone even mentions my name while tlking 2 him online he blocks them instantly!!!! IT JUST HAPPPENED!!! but still he flirts nd stares at me lke he lkes me!!!! Y DO I PUT UP W/ THIS ND STILL LUV HIM EVEN THOUGH HE TREATS ME LKE THIS?!!!!
2006-08-13 16:53:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like an unhealthy relationship. Break all contact and start fresh.
2006-08-13 17:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kitiany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a mysterious thing. It can also be a dangerous weapon that can hurt you in so many ways. This seems like a love not worth your time. Try moving on to someone that can respect you and then see if you still feel the same way.
2006-08-14 00:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to control you and he knows you still love him but his behaviour to you isn't loving. Its cruel. It may be also you want to control the situation, to control him but that's not happening. Most times when we put ourselves into these types of situations when we are young and don't understand what is happening we will still be in these types of relationships all through our adult life unless we understand what Dysfunctional Relationships are all about. Its also finding out about our 3 Egos - Child-Victim, Parent-Controller & Adult-Healthy. By letting him have control over you, you are giving him your Power. Take it back. Ignore him. Be strong. There will always be some out there who will love you.
2006-08-14 00:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does not really like you and maybe its your imagination that he still flirts with you? Did you ask yourself this question? Leave poor boy alone, quit stalking him online. You will be much better off if you let him go, no matter how hard it seems, you will get over him eventually.
2006-08-13 23:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweetundina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something inside of you that feels like you deserve this treatment. You have to get to the root of your low self esteem maybe talking to a counselor like I have. Stand up for yourself and love you, or no one else will.
2006-08-13 23:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes the kind that tortures the people he loves. Why dont you talk to him? Its better than putting up with all this.
2006-08-13 23:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you continue to track him down and follow him. Let it go !!! Move on with your life and find someone who cares for you.
It seems he is not interested but perhaps you are the one that keeps the contact going.
I would find someone who cares for you as equally as you care for them. You will be much happier when you can let this go.
2006-08-14 00:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
spell check.,.... works wonders.....
you don't hate him you love him. his games make you hate him. you put up with him cause you want him. its best you just leave it the way it is and stay away from him. like why use a different sign on to talk to him when he obviously does NOT want to talk to you?? you starting to sound like an obsessed stalker
2006-08-13 23:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not right about this guy....Looks like some kind of abusive gene is incorporated in his gene. Try to escape while you can...
2006-08-18 13:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your false feelings for him!! Get over him, and move on babygurl there's someone way better out there for you !!
2006-08-14 00:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by countrysoonergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋