it totally depends on the person, but if you're catholic that's a major plus, and if you can speak a little polish you'd be surprised how much that would help win them over. if you tell them that your children will grow up speaking polish, then you will have no worries at all. i'm totally serious.
note: the word for black (african-american) woman is 'murzynka' (moo-ZHIN-ka) and derives from the word Moor (the north African invaders of Spain)
2006-08-14 18:07:32
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answered by JP 7
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That's really hard to say, I know a lot of polish people and they are all different in their views. Find out from your boyfriend how open minded his parents are. If they are first generation immigrants they might be very open minded. For most white people times have changed, there's a lot more tolerance for interracial marriages. When you meet them, be yourself, take her some flowers and during your visit you pretty much can gage how they like you, unless they're a big pretenders in your face and talk behind your back. If so, then you're better off without them. A marriage would be out of the question for the simple reason that your then husband would eventually resent being married to you.
Good Luck
2006-08-14 06:30:50
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answered by Mightymo 6
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depends...
Although I'm not from Poland... still my family comes from a place, where you hardly ever meet any African-whatever person ( i guess that's not politically correct).
My family was surprised meeting my boyfriend, but there was never ever any word about that they can ACCEPT or TOLERATE or UNDERSTAND this. It was self-evident and normal. There were some disappointments about how to behave, from both sides, but i think that's in every case of "bf\gf meets parents" same.
And that parents are always against the interracial? relationships is nonsense.... there are too many interracial parents for that.
2006-08-13 19:35:00
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answered by zaraza 4
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Well if they are people with a open mind and can see people not for their color but for their actions it should be OK. As long as they know that you and you bf are in love and happy they should be happy too. If they only see color then i am sorry to say it will be rough on both of you. Lets hope that they turn out to be the first. Peace
2006-08-13 17:00:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Polish people tend to be more open minded than most other Eastern Europeans so I don't think you have anything to worry about. Besides...what matters is that you both are happy. There might need to be a little adjustment on both sides...but be patient :)
2006-08-13 17:02:29
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answered by TRKiev 2
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Sadly, most parents are not open to interracial dating but don't worry they might not like the idea at first but once they get to know you and see how much you care for their son they will accept you.... I know from experience I'm white and my b/f is arab. Good Luck!
2006-08-13 17:00:50
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answered by Cutie Teacher 3
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well they might act uncomfortable at first. just act as friendly and polite as possible. but really just show who you really are. if you guys really love each other,you wont let the reaction of his parents stop you guys from going out.
2006-08-14 02:53:21
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answered by lilkimmigirl701 2
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That really depend on them. Nothing you can do.
Most parents are against interratial dating, but doesn't mean all of them are. What are your parents going to say?
2006-08-13 17:09:40
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answered by Snowflake 7
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It depends on how they are. It could go either way, they'll either like you or not. It's really a 50/50 deal! LOL
2006-08-14 07:17:36
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answered by Samba Queen 5
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You should ask your boyfriend. Because you need to know more than just thier background to gage thier reaction.
2006-08-13 16:59:12
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answered by Chr 2
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