Why should the type of underwear that a guy wears affect his relationship with his girlfriend/wife?
Why should the size of a guy's private part affect his relationship with his girlfriend/wife?
Why should any of this stuff be a problem in relationships? None of this stuff isn't suppose to matter. The main thing that matters is that he/she loves each other. Am I right? or am I wrong? Let me know your opinions.
2006-08-13 16:42:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
size of guys privates shouldn't matter,but underwear is another story...how can a girl get into the mood if she sees tatty, holey underwear?
2006-08-13 16:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are two different items here, First i would think the type of undergarments would or should not make a bit of difference to any woman...its a comfort thing, and you wouldnt comment on the types of bras and panties she wears? However, the size of a mans package to a girlfriend might make a difference, to a wife i would hope not. Possibly a girlfriend , not married might think about self satisfaction sexually...but i would think there would be other ways to compensate for her pleasure. On the other hand, for a wife, i would think that it should not really be an issue, you accept the entire package or should before you say I do. SO it should be a mute point, in my opinion
2006-08-13 16:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have pet peeves that they just can't get over.. But you are correct it really shouldn't matter about size, or clothing. If what the other person is wearing embarasses you when you go out in public then it's another thing. Love should be the most important thing in a relationship, not the clothing, the size, or the pocket book.
2006-08-13 16:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by Valarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically you are right, but there are other factors that enter into the equation which makes it more complicated than what you have just stated, the materialism of people today and what is said about what boxers and briefs do enters into the underwear question. In the size question the fact of how many partners she has had, and if it makes her feel good is part of it, and this is why there is a problem with these things.
2006-08-13 16:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-a guy should be allowed to wear what ever underwear he thinks are comfortable... just like the wife or girlfriend now I would have a problem if that was all he was wearing around other people... and as far as size... if it pleases then whats the problem... unless he is showing it off to others asking their opinion...
things like this are only an issue if you let them be an issue...
2006-08-13 16:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by concerned mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of that matters if its true love. I would say that if a guy's underwear are really really old and gross or something, that COULD affect the relationship. So if your underwear are yucky then get new ones or don't wear any.
2006-08-13 16:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true dude, love should conquer all, at least thats what the movies tell us. however all the things you mentioned can be reversed and become an excuse for a guy to break up with a girl. the way she dresses may not be sexy enough, or she has put on weight. these days people always think that there is something better round the corner and that our perfect soulmate exist. that just isnt true though
2006-08-13 16:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start off with, sure these things might matter, but once u get 2 the know and love the person, they shouldn't matter @ all... otherwise the person is just being selfish or superficial... it's not the size that matters, it's what u do with it.. and if their underwear turns u off, tell them what kind turns u on, and try n make a compromise...
2006-08-13 16:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
type of underwear no biggie..some underwear is a better turn on..
Private part size is actually believe it or not is REALLY all about the MOTION!!
None of things things are real issues,not for someone that you LOVE...When you LOVE someone things are differ ant ..and the other things like compassion,faith fullness,kindness this things should matter...
2006-08-13 16:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont mind what kind of underwear a guy would wear but i seriously perfer boxers just because its sexy on most guys that have a fit body. private area as u called it may depend on the person..some may go for width and others length... but yeah i think as long as they have a fun time being together it shouldnt matter
2006-08-13 16:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋