we really like each other and we were a match made in heaven and i love him i know "im to young to love" but i really do love him id do anything for him anything and please help
2006-08-13 16:38:32 · 33 answers · asked by chickalicky2011 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Kissing. That's as far as you should go. No question about it.
2006-08-13 16:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by actor_girl_1986 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are 13 it is only puppy love and you will grow out of it. If you do more than kissing you will regret it. No birthcontrol is 100%. If you go all the way there is a large chance he will tell someone and you will have bad rumors spread around the whole school about you. I have seen this happen to many girls, do not ever let a boy or your friends pressure you into sex. You do not want an incurable STD or to get pregnant. If you need any more help feel free to contact me.
2006-08-13 16:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you do love him but love at 13 is very different to love at 30. Keep it at the kissing stage for a long while yet. If he won't accept this then he is not worth your time or love. If someone truely loves you then he will not pressure you to go further than you want. Love yourself first and remember you do not have to do "anything he likes" to make this work
2006-08-13 16:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shouldnt go that far!! Maybe a little kiss and thats it! Girl, ive seen teen girls around ur age all woried about being pregnant and stuff. If you dont believe me, go to this web page k? And watch, if u end up pregnant, u never trully know if the guy will leave u. He's not going to get a well paid job at his age sweetie! So think about all the ups and downs to getting pregnant k?
2006-08-13 16:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say is that is not love its crush, and you are way to young to think about love, you have your whole life in front of you, right now just enjoy life and just be friends dont do anything silly or else you will regret it down the road, if this is true love then you should wait till you are older. I hope I have helped.
2006-08-13 16:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by rjmp2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart you not to young to love, but your to young to make love...i have a 14 yr old daughter and she is more interested in an education right now as should you be...if he loves you and you would do anything for him, then wait and give him yourself on your wedding night...ppl make to much out of sex..while it being a wonderful way to love someone, you first need to love yourself enough to wait...
please just love him with your heart right now, and give the rest of your love to him later...school is so much more important for the both of you...what kind of life will you have together if you don't finish school because you are both to busy working jobs a burger king to try and raise the little baby you made...i hope i haven't upset you, just saying the same things to you as any mother would say to the child they love...good luck and stay strong...
2006-08-13 17:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by tiffani h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you talk to your mom about this? I think that if you can talk to your mom, and ask her for birth control then you are old enough. But I don't think at this age you can, so maybe you should wait. Sex is for when you can be mature enough to handle everything that might happen.
Plus most people who have sex this young get "freaked out" and break up soon after. If you love him, why would you do something that might make you break up? If he is bugging you to have sex, then he only wants use you.
2006-08-13 20:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do anything with him your too young, to even be thinking like that... And you don't know what love is... I say wait you may feel like that now with this guy but trust me later your going to cahnge ur mind. Plus if you really love each other then you guys can wait until ur older...
2006-08-13 16:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you think you love him, and you may, but love doesn't always equal sex or anything beyond kissing. If he uses that as a way to get further, he's not in love or thinking about love at all. Enjoy eachother by kissing, hugging and simple things. Don't rush to grow up, it's not all it's cracked up to be.
2006-08-13 17:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by cloudnine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you give it away you can't take it back. and once you give it to him once he will always want it. 13 is too young no matter what he tells you and thats all a boy that age thinks about even if he does like you. just be careful. i know you feel all grown up but you aren't. the next time you see a young mother with a baby think that it could be you and how your life could be over. and it only taks one time.
2006-08-13 16:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was once their I was 14 he was 15 we were in love we were best friends. I ended up pregnant had my daughter at 15 were so much in love he went his way i went mine. We are friends now but we wished we were older and married before we even went their. Good luck with your decision but think og the consequences. God Bless
2006-08-13 18:10:34 · answer #11 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋