I'm scared for her because she's like family to me and I have no idea what the next months are going to bring. She's scared about losing her hair and being sick everyday from chemotherapy and the threat of dying. How can I be a comfort during this time?
2006-08-13 16:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by M N 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just make sure you keep her spirits up and help her to fight like hell!!!! This disease can be deadly but it can also be defeated! YOU MAKE SURE SHE FIGHTS TOOTH AND NAIL! She will be sicker than hell during treatment but just keep cheering her on!!! My mother just beat breast cancer and she is 63!! A big part of the outcome will be her attitude! DOn't let her give up. . . don't ever let her give up!!!! FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!! Good luck and may God bless you!
2006-08-13 16:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try to be a support system in any way that she might need. If you say she's like family to you, offer to take care of some regular errands, like grocery shopping, mail, light cleaning around the house, etc. This will be extremely helpful to her during the period of recovery. I hear that chemo is really tough on the body. Or, you can take on more responsibility at work, so that when she's out healing, she is not so anxious about whether things are getting done at the office.
2006-08-13 23:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn shorty, I'm sorry. I hate talking about that world. It petrify's me. But, alot of people don't know this, but if your serious. There's alternative medicine's to treat this now. It's expensive, but it works. I know a lady that has beatin cancer. And she told this lady with lupus about it, and now she's cured. It's called Hemeopathy I think. Do some research on it, and if you can't find it, email me and I'll give you info on a place in Florida where you might be able to order it. I hope I can be of some help.
2006-08-13 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Da Jedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you need to read up on it. Go online and search it out.
Not every woman gets sick with the chemo.
You can be there for her with helping around her house.
Bringing her something to eat cause she wont always feel like eatting and that is something she must do.
Make sure she does all she can and what the dr says.
Pray,Pray,Pray for her.
Send her name the the temples and churches close to you.
Just be her friend.
2006-08-13 23:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Quelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being there for her but not by making her feel that ur only there because shes sick and u pitty her.. theirs a difference between feeling sorry for a person and being their friend. just be her friend and make sure she has the attitude of im not going to die with cancer, im going to live with cancer. if that makes any sense!
2006-08-13 23:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by cotton_candy8448 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her.....not much you can do to take awy her fear but you can be there for her to encourage her when she is losing hope or when she loses her hair help her to find a wig that looks good on her or you can help her pick out a turban to wear.....
2006-08-13 23:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that she is not alone and that you will help her get through this anyway you can.Asure her of your friendship and careing.
2006-08-13 23:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend, and be as supportive as you possibly can. Offer to help her anyway you can.
2006-08-13 23:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for her.i will be praying for her.it sad. i lost my grandma from cancer. God Bless.
2006-08-13 23:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by wallyboy197819962001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋