What exactly are women looking for in a man?what turns them on?

Answer 1

Everyone want something different. I love intelligence, creativity, originality, spontinaity, a sence of humor, a good heart, good listeners, confidence, a strong sence of self, self worth, loyalty, someone who is driven, passionate, dedicated, hard working, an artist, someone who can teach me thing I don't know, someone who will take a real interest and be a part of my live. As for what turns me on... mostly the right kind of approach and attitude. Straightforward but not just forward. Someone who knows what they want and are willing to work for it. Nothing good comes easy so they need patients and hopefully they have some style. Not just a player but a thinker. Alot of things, everyone is different and has different needs and wants.

Answer 2

I already have my man for 27 years but the first thing I notice is how good the guy smells. Give compliments and a surprise gift now and then, even if it's just a little note.

Answer 3

This is probably way too deep but here it goes. What every woman looks for is the same but slightly different per person. I personally want a person who *looks* at me, not around me at the waitress, his watch, the paper, at my breasts, legs, etc. I want someone who sees me beyond my body and to take an effort to get to know me.

Be honest with me about what you like and are in to and if you don't see it working out, say something immediately, not six months, weeks, years later. You have to be honest with yourself to know what exactly you want so that you can present yourself that way and communicate it to the person that you are seeing.

What turns me on is actual interest in me and what I'm doing. You don't have to be into the same thing, but show the interest. That shows respect to me. Don't fake it by just asking the questions and not really wanting to hear the answers.

We just want someone to count on when we need it. We are looking for nice caring person who will give a damn about what we want, need, and like just because. Not for the ultimat goal of scoring, but just because it is important to us.

You don't have to be perfect, just real.

Answer 4

I've always said if I ever remarried, I'd want someone who puts God first in his life, because I believe everything else important will come naturally. What actually turns me on though is a man who can watch a chick flick with me and isn't afraid to cry with me:)

Answer 5

I look for a man that is true to his word and sincere about his feelings, i like a man who doesnt throw a punch just to impress me, I like a man who likes music not heavy just something that soothes the soul,

Answer 6

really? what i look for is a man who can truly take care of me mentally, physically and emotionally. so, you can't be afraid to cry, yell, smile and work hard. relationships change and grow or wilt everyday so it's hard work trying to understand and grow with it sometimes a girl just needs you to listen and not try to fix her fix the problem not the person and by the way if one of you says there's a problem even if you don't think there is, there is

Answer 7

Honesty

Answer 8

Can't speak for all woman but myself I looked for someone who has a great sense of humor, confidence, gentle when need be, take charge kinda guy( at times), likes to communicate, and understanding. Confidence (not *********) is a turn on as well as a sexy smile.

Answer 9

Kind, loving, honest, and hardworking. Trusting and understanding are also good. My guy puts up with my crazy mood swings, and I have to say, I couldn't live without that. Most women also enjoy a guy who's good in bed.

Answer 10

1. Lots of money.
2. Even more money.
3. Fat bank account.
4. Looks like you walked off the cover of GQ.
5. At least 10 inches of rock-hard manmeat.