im talking about like does it bother you if someone else (related to you or a total stranger) takes one of your ideas or like wears the same shirt as you or just anything...does it bother you if someone copies you in any way? give any examples...
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2006-08-13 15:53:50 · 19 answers · asked by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ok, seriously. It bothers me so much I literally want the person who copies me to move to a completely different country and never have contact with me again.
Here is an example to the extreme and I'm dead serious. This girl really did do all this. My best friend last year, started dating my brother behind my back. She came over to my house EVERYDAY and I thought it was to chill with me, but no. She secretly had this little fling with my brother. So when I found out I totally hated her for that, cuz that's just something you don't do. It's part of that genetic girl code thing all girls are born with, you know?!
So she knew I started to get annoyed with her, but I gave her a second chance. So for her to make herself feel better about betraying me, she tried to be like me I guess, so we would be closer. But that's what made me hate her even more.
I SWEAR ON MY LIFE!!!...she did EVERYTHING I did. She would hate something one second and when I said I liked it, she would change her mind suddenly.
Example #1: I go to church every Sunday. So she's all like, I LOVE JESUS! All over the church stuff. When we stop being friends, she's no longer a Christian.
Example #2: A commercial comes on for cocoa puffs. She goes, EWW! I HATE THAT CEREAL! And I'm like..WHAT?! I love it! And she goes...immediately after I said it, O wait, nevermind...I was thinking of something else. I love that cereal too.
Example #3: Shes always like, Fall Out Boy is ok. I don't like them all that much. So I go...I LOVE THEM! I'm goin to a concert. So then she wants to go and she's all into them. I'm totally obsessed with Pete Wentz, and she claimed he was ugly, but when she found out I liked him, so did she.
Then towards the end of our friendship she started getting clingy and stuff, and started tellin me about these dreams she was having about killing me in this horrible painful death. She literally had a fit one time cuz I didn't ask her to go to the movies with me and bunch of other friends she doesn't know.
But yeah, I know you're probably like, that's not even that horrible, but this was for EVERYTHING. She bought the same clothes as me, liked and hated all the same music, liked the same boys, she was a total fake. I couldn't take it. She would use the same phrases as me. UGH! The little things add up in a year. And it drove me crazy after a while.
2006-08-13 18:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this bothers the $#@! out of me! I hate when your trying to be yourself in other words unique, and someone comes and copies your style or the things you're into. When people do this I see them as posers because they have nothing else to do. I guess they are insecure of themselves!
2006-08-14 18:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by bbycakes. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I take it as a compliment. I got a new skirt, top and sandles to wear out to dinner. This woman at work got the same thing
except for the shoes!!
2006-08-13 22:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it bugs me soo much, especially when we both know that i'm being copied, but the person continues anyways..gosh . But, it's supposed to be like the higest from of flattery right ?
2006-08-13 23:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Antionette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i'ts a bummer when I have a idea and the person I told it to repeats the same idea back to me a week later as if it were their own idea .
2006-08-13 23:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by godsbird2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, when i was younger, there was a girl who liked my boyfriend and she would wear her hair the same as me, and started dressing like me and would even laugh and talk like me at times. And she would listen to my music and make friends with my friends and all those types of things. REALLY annoying.
2006-08-13 23:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Just Gone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yessssss it bothers the crap out of me. I guess it's kind of stupid but it really gets to me, even something as small as when someone says they're getting one thing at a restaurant then asks what I'm getting, and once I tell them, they change their mind and get exactly what I'm getting. God, it's so annoying!
2006-08-13 22:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-13 23:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it bothers me extremely... it's okay if it's once, maybe twice, but if it gets to be a habit, it tells me that the person is insecure with herself/himself, and I want to be my unique person, and I don't want the other person to become a shadow. He/She has to form his/her own unique self.
2006-08-13 23:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by musicrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really, it just let me know they want to be like me and if they dont copy me, they envy me. So they might as well copy me.
2006-08-13 23:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by xllx_poptart_xllx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋