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2006-08-13 15:46:55 · 30 answers · asked by Rash 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Listen: I have a gay family member. I'm pretty much an expert. First, Take a walk. Try to look at a girl. If you are attracted, then you're straight. If you look at a boy and are attracted, you're gay. You can also try looking in the mirror and saying to yourself you're gay/straight. See which one you can believe, see what one you can say easier. I wish your friend the best of luck. May he find true love, no matter what gender.
2006-08-13 15:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE HOMO TEST
MEN
Do you want to sleep with other men?
(If you've check this one, go directly to Chapter 3, you're a fag.)
Can you name all the actors who played Tarzan?
Do you use the word "fabulous" more than five times a day.
Do you encourage your girlfriend to let her mustache grow in.
Do you scour the TV listings looking for old Tab Hunter flicks?
Was changing clothes in Jr. High P.E. more fun than the actual sport?
Is trying to fit "Yo, dude!" into your vocabulary like trying to master a foreign
tongue?
While growing up did you play with Barbies?
While growing up did you want to be Barbie?
And did you want to marry Ken?
Do you know all the songs from more than five Broadway musicals?
Do you consider Mary Kay a career choice?
Super bowl? What's that?
WOMEN:
Do you work for Federal Express? (Go right to Chapter 3, you're a dyke)
Have you seen every Jodie Foster film?
Do you have a first edition copy of Radcliffe Hall?
Does flannel make you excited?
Do you find yourself at golf tournaments but don't play golf?
Do you have a large quantity of sensible shoes?
Did you have a crush on your gym teacher?
Are you a gym teacher?
Are you currently living in a one bedroom apartment with your gym teacher?
Do you bowl?
Can't talk, the super bowl is on.
# Okay, I'm having fun with stereotypes, but if the truth is, if you took this test, you probably are gay. And if you took the test in pen... big news flash... you're definitely queer! "Oh no, I'm not a homo," you say? Just the fact that you are reading this means that "gay" is an issue for you. Even if you have never acted on any gay fantasies, have hetero fantasies or are bi-sexual, as far as this book is concerned, you qualify as a homo. If there wasn't homophobia, we wouldn't be having such problems with these labels. We wouldn't think twice about being a big Queer, but because of homophobia, all sexuality is reduced to one word. And according to a survey of ten top homophobes, that one and only word is: STRAIGHT!
2006-08-13 15:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just heard in a Reggaeton song where the singer says: Momia!!
which is Spanish for Mummy.
If you weren't born in Egypt long ago, then you aren't a mummy but if you don't have much life in you, you may act like a mummy.
Frankly "gay" is a word that means nothing to me. People label certain conduct as "gay" conduct or acting gay.
So, it depends on your definition. If you love someone and that person is elegant or artistic or even athletic, then some morons may call him gay. Who cares?
Now, there is a new style called "Metro-sexual" which involves straight men who are elegant, like Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp.
Maybe your friend is like that.
2006-08-13 15:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find with all the abbreviated words, the question is hard to read. It takes time to know yourself. Sometimes, a person may have a gay relation and think they are gay because sexual pleasure can be experience no matter who is doing the stimulation. Sometimes, a person is simply a late bloomer and isn't really into sex yet--let alone choosing an orientation.
Given enough time, your preference will surface on it's own without anyone directing you. When you are ready, it will happen.
2006-08-13 15:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are physically, sexually, emotionally, and romantically attracted to a person of the SAME gender, then you are gay.
If you do not feel those aforementioned things for a member of the OPPOSITE gender, then you are gay.
Has your friend perhaps experienced and encounter that had put him in this quandry?
2006-08-13 15:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he should try dating both sexes and see which he likes better. If he finds himself sexually attracted to woman then he's not gay. If he finds himself sexually attracted to men then he's gay. Or if he finds himself sexually attracted to either or both then he's bisexual. You can not tell if someone is gay by their demeanor anymore...it is completely determined by their sexual preference(s).
2006-08-13 15:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he attracted to men sexually? if he says yes then yes he is gay if he says no then no he is not gay...that is something only he can answer and claim other people can't label you gay and make it true.
2006-08-13 15:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by University Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do'nt even wonder, he will know all in good time, and if he is gay, he would know...just ask him to loko at guys and then a bunch of girls and which one does he feel right about, like which one would he rather marry or love in that way..?
2006-08-13 15:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stephie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he mean?? i mean if he's attracted to guys then yes, there is no suck thing as being bi so he cant go for that! Once u ask that question, ur totally gay!
2006-08-13 15:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyDUh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you are and that's why you don't know it. Do you like handsome men? If you answer yes to this, Oh boy! Should I go on further?
2006-08-13 16:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋