This guy was my first. He got in contact with me through a family member. I don't want to be with him like i used to be.
2006-08-13 15:44:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh yeah, we met up 2 weeks ago and I had sex with him. I want to continue but I don't know how to tell him or how he will react. I don't want things to be wierd but I still want the physical not the emotional. ALL GUYS WHAT DO U THINK?
ALL GIRLS WHAT U DO IN THIS SITUATION?
2006-08-13 15:47:03 · update #1
Oh yeah, we met up 2 weeks ago and I had sex with him. I want to continue but I don't know how to tell him or how he will react. I don't want things to be wierd but I still want the physical not the emotional. Afterward he acted like everything was cool. He does not act like he still wants to be with me, but the sex was off the hook. I can't take back what I did and I can't stop thinking about it.
ALL GUYS WHAT DO U THINK?
ALL GIRLS WHAT U DO IN THIS SITUATION?
2006-08-13 15:53:37 · update #2
we broke because we graduated and went away to college. I'm currently seeing someone.
2006-08-13 15:56:52 · update #3
yes i agree first get to know him again and maybe yous will have something. but if not ask him what he wants and maybe yous might have the same feeling and just want to sleep with each other and nothing else... good luck with it..
2006-08-13 15:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you don't have emotions right now, it's only natural that you will develop them if you continue sleeping with your ex. Believe me. I broke up with an ex-bf and we didn't talk for 6 months. We both moved on. When we started talking again 6 months later, it was completely on a friendly basis. He was seeing someone else as was I. Then things happen. Feelings get revived. You're traveling on a dangerous dark road if you continue doing what you're doing.
2006-08-13 15:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur the kind of woman that would like to have a relationship with ur ex thats quoted as,"friends w/benefits" go ahead. u never know tho, u might say u just want the physical as of now but because uve been with him before, 99.9% all the feelings u had for each other will come into play again. if ur willing for that to happen then go right ahead, other wise i personally have never had a friends with benefits relationship because i just think that leads to cheating!
2006-08-13 15:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, using someone just for sex; sounds like a train wreck about to happen and you'll be caught up in the middle of it!
2006-08-13 15:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally don't get this friends with benefits thing
if you are good friends and the sex is so good together then what the heck are you waiting for
just become a couple....over time the sex will get even better as you grow together and learn more about pleasing each other
2006-08-13 15:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by just my answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it.
But I am not into just sleeping with people only. I think that's kind of a harsh way to treat other people.
And besides, i'm about as straight as a circle.
2006-08-13 15:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. If you are a girl, you will have a 99% positive response. If you are a guy, you have to be gentle and use proper words..
example: I really missed the things we do together.. Can we do it for the last time? :)
2006-08-13 15:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by hotsaucemoto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your self and with him. If you're going to bed with him better make him your husband and keep him around. If not, better go to God and be forgiven and do not do it any more.
Times are a changing and if your not there you won't be.
I personally will be there.
(Exd 20:14) Thou shalt not commit adultery.
(Luk 16:18) Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from [her] husband committeth adultery.
(Mar 10:12) And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Should you really go there?
2006-08-13 16:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Michael JENKINS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will end in tears if you continue seeing/sleeping with him. He contacted you after years of being apart, I think he probably has unresolved feelings for you, I think you will only hurt him if things continue on.
2006-08-13 15:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Baby Girl. You go for it. Just tell the guy that you want to have sex, sex, sex, and nothing more. NO STRINGS WHAT SO EVER...............
2006-08-13 15:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋