Who am I most compatible with?

Question

I am single, have mostly had long term relationships with leos and libras, 1pisces and 1 scorpio and I have no kids (although, I do love kids and I work with kids). I am a taurus and I was born on april 22,1981 at 12:00 p.m. in Los Angeles, Ca.

I have been broken hearted a lot and just want to know what the best sign for me is? Thank you.

Answer 1

Thank you for posting your birth information correctly, so I could look at your natal chart.

You are attracted to Leo's because you have Leo on your Ascendant (your Asc is 12°07' Leo) and that put's their Sun signs in your first house if they are born after August 2nd.

Their Sun in your first house:
http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#First%20House%20Sun

If someone’s Sun falls in your first house there is an element of competition, associated with Aries. These people will always get your attention, and because the first is the house of self, they cause you to look at yourself in comparison to them. There is a mirror effect, and when you look at them you see yourself. You will probably have the peculiar feeling that you must maintain your image, and that you can never completely let your guard down around this person. This feeling was probably apparent upon your first meeting. You may assume that the other person would use any negative information to your detriment and to their advantage.

There is a good chance that your actual meeting of this person was in some competitive capacity, which is one of the healthiest relationships for this position. Most other types of relationships would feel this strain of competition in an uncomfortable manner. Even if there are easier indications from the position of your own Sun in the other person's chart, it will not be easy for you to overcome this element of competition between the two of you. Both you and the other person may be vying for the attention of the same person, such as the boss, for example. In work relationships, a lot can be accomplished by the two of you, but this will be mainly due to each of you trying to out do the other.

In other types of relationships, the competition may be over material possessions, or just about anything you can think of. Friendly competition is likely between family members.

You have Libra on your 3rd house cusp, so Libra Sun signs would end up having their Sun signs in your 3rd house of communications.

Their Sun in your third house:
http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#Third%20House%20Sun

If another person's Sun falls in your third house, you are mutually intellectually stimulating to one another, and there is much to discuss. There is an ease and comfort in each others' presence as you tend to view life from the same perspective. This person is a natural comrade, such as a brother or sister would be.

This position suggests that the two of you came together in the first place due to living in the same vicinity, or through a mutual relationship with a third person. The third house usually does not indicate the type of deep connection as in some of the other houses. These relationships tend to shift and change as you go through life, some fading away as others take their place.

This house relates to brothers, sisters, relatives, and neighbors with whom you are thrown into close contact with on a daily basis by location, or through familial connections. This can include many with whom you'd come into contact with while shopping, running errands, etc., and the relationship has a Gemini influence. Daily communication is the focal link between the two of you. Your interchange with these people is off hand or nonchalant. There's no need to expend lot of attention on maintaining these relationships since they are natural.

Anyone who is an Aquarius born after February 2nd would have their Sun in your 7th house of partnerships both marriage and business ones.

Their Sun in your 7th house:
http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#Seventh%20House%20Sun

The seventh is the natural house of partnership. When someone’s Sun falls here, you often hit it off well enough to become partners because this house position is linked to Libra, the harmonizing sign. This position has the opposite effect of the 1st house, where you feel you must maintain face. Here, you have nothing to hide. You want to give of yourself totally, as it seems the most natural thing to do is to form some kind of allegiance. You have great admiration for this person, and roll models are often found to have this Sun position in your chart. Marriages often have the Sun of one in the 7th house of the other, and this would be an advantage for any serious partnership.

The pitfalls of this house is that the 7th also rules enemies, and the relationship must go one of two ways. There's an element of opposition and if they don't attract, they'll still come face to face. There's a risk becoming enemies. Occasionally one meets the enemy type. An extreme example; Michael Smith’s mother’s Sun fell in his 7th house, and she became a deadly enemy.

For the most part these relationships work out well. On the positive side, John Lennon’s Sun fell in the 7th house of Ringo Starr’s chart, showing partnership potential. John Kennedy’s Sun fell in Jackie’s 7th.

There is one interesting peculiarity that stands out about the 7th house. If the other person is of the opposite sex, you’ll tend more often toward the feeling of partnership. Those of the same sex will be more likely to fall into the role of a natural enemy.

Anyone who is a Scorpio would have their Sun in your 4th house of family and the home.

Their Sun in your 4th house:
http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#Fourth%20House%20Sun

Another's Sun in your fourth house indicates a relationship borne from a domestic link. This position is common in strong family ties, especially to one or both of the parents and the influence of Cancer is noted. This is a parental authority house and if a person who has this position is not a parent, you will still have the feeling that you are dealing with a parent type. You do have a sense of security from knowing and associating with this person, which can be nice as long as you understand that you must take the subordinate or child role in the relationship. A certain amount of respect is demanded of you, if you are to have a smooth relationship with this person. You tend to take more from these people than you would from others, and it is not unusual for a younger person to have this effect on an older one, explaining many otherwise unexplainable relationships.
In these relationships where there are no obvious family ties, you will find that you are still very comfortable around these people as if they could easily be a family member. Pleasures that the two of you share are usually centered around the home. At times you will find yourself asking for their advice, as a child would ask a mother. There is a bond between you in this way. The only pitfall with this relationship is that it could eventually cause you to feel pinned down. You might end up resenting the way this person tries to run your life even tho' it may come from the heart.

Many times these relationships come about from some connection the two of you have in a related domestic interest, such as real estate, restaurant work, or similar.

Anyone who is a Sagittarius would have their Sun in your 5th house of love affairs.

Their Sun in your 5th house:
http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#Fifth%20House%20Sun

This is one of the best positions for friendships, and is usually a happy relationship. Another person’s Sun in your fifth house awakens your creative adrenaline and there is an element of playfulness. It is a Leo connection, providing great vitality. The two of you probably have some mutual interest that you especially enjoy together. You get great pleasure from such an association, and may have been brought together through an entertainment function. There is a youthful vibrancy in these relationships and it is the natural house associated with romance.
You tend to forget about the more serious aspects of life, and responsibilities take a back burner when the two of you get together. This is fine, and a very healthy relationship to indulge in, but if it is to be more than occasional, there needs to be some grounding from some other area of the chart. Otherwise, you could spend your life in joyful bliss, without accomplishing much in a concrete way. A pair of friends who each have this connection into the other chart would be especially prone to enjoy their friendship at the expense of responsibilities, but the relationship would undoubtedly last through thick and thin.

Other connections that could bring the two of you together are pleasurable activities, sports, parties, etc. Many times, the person with this Sun position is younger, and you may feel as if they are your very own child; you may find yourself treating them in this respect, although it will always be a very lighthearted relationship.

Anyone who is a Pisces would have their Sun in your 8th house of sex.

Their Sun in your 8th house:

http://moonvalleyastrologer.com/compatible.htm#Eighth%20House%20Sun

If another person's Sun falls in your eighth house, associated with Scorpio, you will go through many deep and profound changes as a result of any close relationship with them. This can be revealing and uplifting or it can be painful and disastrous. This depends on how you deal with changes of a psychological nature, and on exactly what kind of changes this person has in mind. Many of these relationships come about in the first place because of a feeling on your part that a change is overdue. At those times, you attract just those people who can bring it about. At best, this person will be able to rekindle something that you had given up. Be careful, though, that your present vulnerability doesn’t lead you into associations with those who would take advantage.

There is an underlying aura of mystery surrounding these people that appeals to you, and though you may not be aware of it in the beginning, sexual allure. An intimate relationship with the eighth house type has the potential of becoming extremely sensual and erotic.

This house also rules loans, taxes, insurance, wills, etc. Some relationships with this influence are likely to be found with bankers or agents who deal with these. It is a good idea to keep in mind that any close relationship of an eighth house nature that does not work out has the potential for fireworks over property shared by the two of you.

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For a female's chart you can look to the Sun and Mars and their aspects for what types of males they are attracted to.

Ideal Man for a Woman
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

Your Sun sign is in Taurus and your Mars sign is in Aries. Have your considered dating others born around the same date as yourself, April 22, so that you would both have the same Sun sign, Taurus? Your Sun signs would then be conjunct and their Sun would be conjunct your Venus and be trine your Neptune. And their Sun signs would also be conjunct your Mercury and Mars which are both conjunct in late stage Aries.

Sun conjunct Sun in synastry:
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_sun_aspects.html

Your overall characteristics and energy levels are very similar. You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.

Sun - Venus Aspects
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_venus_aspects.html

See link for info.

Sun - Neptune Aspects
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_neptune_aspects.html

The trine and sextile aspects between the Sun and Neptune in synastry are more likely to feature the more positive, stimulating interactions outlined above. There is a level of forgiveness and mercy in the chemistry between you. You may share your dreams together with a sense of freedom. Tolerance exists between the two of you, which is a very soothing and settling quality. The conjunction can go either way.

Sun - Mars Aspects
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_mars.html

With Sun conjunct Mars in synastry, there is a real physical connection between the two that generally presents itself as sexual attraction and physical chemistry. There is a true feeling of progressiveness and energy between the two of you. The potential to both challenge each other and frustrate each other, as discussed above, is somewhat high, but generally you both feel that you are headed somewhere with each other, and your personal energy cycles are boosted as the result of interaction with your partner. Sexual attraction is very high. Both feel the other person is their "type", and each tends to get a real ego boost and energy buzz from their partner. Arguments tend to be highly personal and subjective. The biggest complaint from the Mars person is that the Sun person is too judgmental or self-righteous, while the Sun person finds Mars overly defensive. Touchiness is probably the biggest problem between the two of you. Each of you knows how to push the other's buttons, and the attraction between you is spunky.

Sun - Mercury Aspects

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_mercury_aspects.html

Sun conjunct Mercury in synastry:

Talking and sharing ideas is highlighted in your relationship. You enjoy learning new things together and exchanging points of view. You work well together in planning, organizing, theorizing, writing, or communicating ideas in any manner. You work together effectively on daily chores, problems, or business activities. One of the first things you might notice when you meet is the ease with which you talk with each other--you are rarely short on something to say. You stimulate one another to think and express yourselves more clearly and creatively. The mental rapport between you may not be the most dramatic of romantic connections, but it helps you connect with ease, and it ensures that you will be able to sort through many problems by drawing upon rationality and logic.

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The ruler of your 7th house (Aquarius) of partnerships and marriage is deposited into your 4th house (Uranus). That indicates that you may marry/live with someone who is connected to 4th house matters. The 4th house presents your mother, your home, your family, your childhood, security, the latter part of life etc. It also may indicate that you marry later in life. And I stress the "may" part of that. It's not set in stone. Your decisions, free will and fate all play a role in that.

Ruler of the 7th House in the 4th House
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/rulersofhousesinhouses.html

You seek a partner who is nurturing, caring, and domestic. A feeling of security in your close personal relationships is extremely important to you. Fitting in to your sense of home and family, and your set of traditions, is important to you in a companion. You seek someone familiar and comfortable. Your life partner may be the one who provides a home base for you--a sense of comfort and security. This sometimes indicates a person who is slow to marry, if at all. This position can suggest that your relationships tend to mirror your own parents' relationship, either in an unconscious attempt to fill emotional needs that went unfulfilled in childhood, or to cling to your roots. You tend to feel threatened when others don't support your most basic of values.

Hope the information helps you out. Best of luck to you! :)

Answer 2

thats probably why. you are not compatible with leo or libra, however pisces, scorpio, capricorn, and virgo make good matches. also note that sun signs arent always right. its based on chemistry and personalities that really makes up a good partner, not what month u were born in

Answer 3

Good luck with your searching lady. You should go to www.astro.com. They can draw your birth charts and other interesting horoscopes. Alot of them are for free. The website is very helpful in love, success and other personal aspects. When you understand yourself better, it will be easier for someone else love you.

Answer 4

i'd like to take you out sometime :) im a 19 year old scorpio and a Tiger of the Chinese horoscope.... DOB 11-19-86 12:55pm in Knoxville, TN.

my email is [e-mail] and its also my messager :)

Answer 5

i think you should try with someone more serious and stable as a Capricorn man, with a less "airy" personality.

Answer 6

well, tauruses are most compatible with cancers, virgos, capricorns and pisces... hope it helped you! ( =