i have never had anal before but want to try
2006-08-13 14:58:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Start stretching your *** now. Wash your hands. Stick your fingers in. Start to stretch it. Gradualy go to bigger things. Try a dildo.
No anal with out a condom on!
When the time comes...
1) Get an enema. Use female douche products or a water bottle.
2) Have plenty of lube and condoms on hand. Two good lubes are either eros pur or wet. Put some lube in your *** and some lube on his penis (that is hopefully covered with a condom.)
3) Have him put it in you slowly at first and just hold still. Let your anal passage adjust to him. It might be a minute - longer if he is really hung.
4) Soon enough he should be able to bang away.
5) Try squeezing your *** around his dick as he is in you. Some guys like it.
6) Be sure and relax you azz hole. Act like you are going to take a poo. (if you have done an enema there will be no danger of poo coming out.) By you doing this the hole will open up.
If you have a choice of partners - try someone with a medium size dick at first. Then you can work up.
The first few times will be a little rough - but it is worth it. You will be a size queen before you know it.
Be sure and compliment your top if he is doing a good job. Massage him, kiss, caress him, let him know you like what he is doing. Also - if he does something you don't like or is going too hard - let him know.
It would probably be easiest if you enters you in doggy stile at first. But feel free to switch around.
If you get too tired - let him know you need a break.
All this won't make it completely painless - but trust me on this - it is a pain that feels good!
2006-08-13 15:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
First, relax, anal sex CAN hurt, it DOES NOT HAVE TO.
Relaxing, both in your mind, body and ahem is the best thing you can do.
1. Lube a finger and slowly insert it to the knuckle and then 'f@ck' yourself with it
2. use two fingers
3. Rub c0ck along your ar5e so that you get use to the feel of it and it helps you relax (helps me anyway)
4. use lots of lubrication, non-oil based if using condoms.
5. insert head slowly and leave it in for a bit.
. insert a bit more and wait...repeat until all the way in
6 use small strokes to get you used to the movement, increase length of stroke gradually
7. do not f*ck hard or fast
Also, make sure it is with someone you really trust and is calm, patient and respectful. If it hurts, stop, pull out a little and then try again. It is enjoyable, so pain means your doing it wrong!
2006-08-14 17:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by acidedge2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO OIL guys!!! It burns!
Lube but KY or something similar.
I say just relax, and take it REALLY slow.... and when I say really slow I mean REALLY slow. Let him sit outside, and very gradually he can work it in. But remember you have to be in control. Keep stopping him and taking deep breaths. RELAX!!! Then go on a bit more. If you get tense you'll clench and that is when it gets painful.
Keep talking to your partner and make sure you both know the rules before you start.
Hope you enjoy.
2006-08-13 18:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication would help and go at a sloe paste. When the penis is in the anal, leave there so it can get used to it..but the first time shouldn't be fast...just go slow.
2006-08-13 15:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Manny_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT USE any oil based lubes for anal sex, it can cause infection, use a water based lube,and plenty of it,, relax and chill out before you do it, cause if you're tense, it'll hurt like hell. and it is a good idea to practice with smaller objects first.
(condoms are always recommended too)
2006-08-13 15:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've neva tried.But know people who have an they say jus relax an use lots of K-Y jelly.Howeva me myself dont c anyway 4 it not 2 hurt.H*** it hurts sometimes when things come out of there so thats y I havent bothered 2 try it.But if u do good luck an..Think'a bout it....
2006-08-15 19:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f ask me to try it once n u need 2 apply some lube or best is baby oil in - into ur partner n apply a little 2 urself . i think d first was messy but not painful .
2006-08-13 15:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?L1hj
As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.
2017-02-17 04:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poppers.
2006-08-14 01:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YO HO Dark Angel and your man with lots of numbers after his name seem pretty switched on.... Follow their advice!
2006-08-13 16:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋