It was really damaging to me.
2006-08-13 14:41:25 · 5 answers · asked by shannetta w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your best best is to get some counceling. I know it might not sound like it but it would really help. There are just some things in life that you cant tell anyone and by talking to a councelor, you have the privacy.
2006-08-13 14:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by M A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy. I am 38 and still haven't gotten "over" my childhood and adolescence. Everyone deals differently. My sister was married at 16 so she could leave home. My brother was into serious drugs and crime at a young age. Me? Well, every minute of every day is a constant struggle. I eventually gave in, and made an appointment to see a psychiatrist, and then a therapist. I've been in the hospital several times due to the "trauma". Perhaps, try to find a support group in your area. If not, a very good, trustworthy friend may be able to lend an open ear, and just talk. It's very important to talk about it. It kinda helps put everything behind you. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world! Take care of yourself.
2006-08-13 21:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dee Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that the pain you felt from others was not about you. it was their issues and immaturity and unfortunately being mean and damaging to your spirit was the only way they could feel better about themselves. not right, just something that happens.
remember that everything that happens to you in your life (good/bad/other) is what makes you the wonderful person you are today.
listen, learn, let go and live . . .
dream, believe, soar and achieve.
2006-08-13 21:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by annie - rainbow goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor and / or get into a support group. "Your feelings are the place of your captivity. ...confess, reconcile, release, and surrender." This is a way of processing the feelings that keep us in the past instead of living in the right now.
2006-08-13 22:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by cathyhewed1946 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your hardest to over come it by thinking about the good things that have happened. i have bben in a situation like this. you just got to not let it get you down. think of everything that makes you happy. and dont let things get you down.
2006-08-13 21:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋