In saying this: Ok, a guy that [really] likes me, we write notes back and forth to each other and he said he was too busy to write a note one time, so I let it off. And now he he gave me a note today that wasn't even a third of a page long!! It had like 5 words..in the note he said he was sorry it wasn't longer and explained why it wasn't [he was busy] but do you think I'm right in saying that if he really liked and cared about me he could at least fid the time to write more decent notes. I mean I least I give him a whole page. I know he's busy with school and everything, but still, I think it's sort of unfair. What type of bf do you think he'd be to me? I mean he's really shy, and still kind of sweet. Do you think I'm too selfish or what?
2006-08-13 14:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, us guys don't really do notes. You are lucky you get anything at all. He definitely likes you.
2006-08-13 16:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not selfish, you are just a young kid who takes a note or two and turnes them in to all of your hopes and dreams. It is how we humans are when we are young.
In the start of a connection with someone it is usually intense..like a long note, and as time goes by the kick turns in to a short note. This is part of being human.
Younger girls are more into romance than the young guys are. The guys are thinking sex more than anything . The girls are day dreaming and think about flowers and rings and wedding dresses and sweet kisses and such things. Girls also tend to project way in to the future. And girls often make a long note feel like a lifetime of love and attention.
As you age, things will be more realistic You will be more sure of yourself and you will definatly know what you want in a man & waste less time on day dreams.
You aren't selfish......you just saw way more in the note exchanges than there really was.
2006-08-13 21:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, You are over reacting.. A lot of guys aren't into the whole writing note things.. They are more into face to face talking.. Writing him notes is a great way to get your feelings out. but don't wait and expect him to write you one back.. If you have his number try calling him and asking him what he thought about your note. That might get him to talk a lot more than he could in a note.. People always say they have more things to say face to face so try talking to him in person instead of a note. it might help you out a lot better. And if you truely want him to write you longer notes in your next note you write him just ask him about it. He might consider what you are saying and write you a longer note.
2006-08-13 21:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right. Maybe he should right more to you. But also talking to my boyfriend and other guys they all say the same thing when they care about someone they may have different ways of showing then others. Maybe he does care about you but also maybe he has a different way of showing it then writing it to you in a note. Also school to could be getting the way.
2006-08-13 21:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you don't expect too much from him, you won't be disappointed. He may have been busy. Is it the length or the content that you need? How can you write so much to him? Try writing important things only and see how much shorter your notes get.
2006-08-13 21:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be kinda selfish.
You have to remember that it's easier for a girl to open up and say what we want in a note then it is for a guy.
Girls are more into the smoochy stuff, note writing, ETC then guys are.
Be glad that he is even trying and be patient.
2006-08-13 21:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by tigergirl301 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a note more than 4 lines long becomes a letter!
2006-08-13 21:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm.....notes aren't a guy thing sweetie, write notes with your girl friends, not boyfriends, NONE of them are good at it, give up
2006-08-13 21:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no writing notes is a girl thing
2006-08-13 21:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I respectfully disagree. It is school, after all. He was probabally going over something important (at least to him... if he needed it). My guess is that it dosn't mean anything... except that he was busy. Just because he was paying attention to the teacher dosn't mean he would be a crappy bf. Good luck. :)
2006-08-13 21:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋