The question is why do people ignore their own flaws and concentrate on the ones the rest of us have?
2006-08-13 14:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by ron k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Insecurity and denial my friend. It's textbook. People are always in denial about their own lives, but give them someone else to pick apart and watch them go. It's much easier for them to point out flaws in everyone else because it makes them feel better about themselves. And since we live in such a "feel good" world, the vicious cycle continues.
2006-08-13 14:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably have more experience at lifes problems! I personally know that I have PLENTY of flaws and defects, some of which im just begiining to realise and discover. I also have 2 professional qualifications in counselling including a btec. People dont mean to interfere = just try to help as they know how it sometimes can be. Be patient with people, they dont mean to get on your wick
2006-08-13 14:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What flaws who me I have flaws oh my gosh your saying I have flaws. Me oh no you didn't say I have flaws you must of been talking about others on here right yeah thats it yeah other people have flaws on here. We are just the only two perfect people on this site.
2006-08-13 14:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the most messed up people are the ones who have survived what the others are just going through. They can give advise on what works or doesn't work to help the others through.
2006-08-13 14:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The thing is that the reason people are so messed up is because they think they already know everything and refuse to listen to anyone else.
2006-08-13 14:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by kyeann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its out of genuine good wiil, as in learning from their own experiences or it could just be that they are really put-to-right and trying to play mother or without being able to or without dealing with their own problems.
2006-08-13 14:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Roselle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of times advice is easier said than done.
2006-08-13 14:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is simply because they´ve been through that kind of situation and they already know how to handle and solve it..also because they don´t want the same thing to happen to you.
2006-08-13 14:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by gorgeous_gaiL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we been there and done that before, it's called experience
2006-08-13 14:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋