2006-08-13 14:10:24 · 15 answers · asked by leslieh338 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he calls my best friends who are serving in the wedding, and another who is an ex, but i've checked all the emails investigations etc. even showed up at his with, when he works with the public and nothing.. The ex just emails him jokes and thats it, I was called the jealous on, but i need to know before he gets the title
2006-08-13 14:20:14 · update #1
no way!
don't let him get away with that
and if you do now that will carry on throughout your marriage...
i would question now if he is the one?
because if he was he wouldn't be calling for
any poo-nanni
watch yourself girl, don't add on to the stats of divorce
mama didn't raise no fool
2006-08-13 14:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what is he calling her? Is he calling her to invite her to the wedding? Is he calling her to see if you two look better together than say they did and is the she perhaps a relative?
Its important that you get this situation under control because if your just getting ready to become man and wife and there are already questions of "other" entanglements in the air then it's probably best to get the air cleared up before you have to begin divorce court!
The trust in a marriage is above all most important! If you have to be wondering all the time whether or not he is being true to you then your not being true to yourself.
I don't believe that a man has to "call other girls" if he has a woman who he is in love with who should be able to answer all his questions about relationships.
I also don't believe you should be prying into his conversations because you come off as being a nosey mate and you wouldn't want that tag.
If you think there is a reason for concern its best if you talk it out with him. If you don't believe he is being true to you then it is best that you delay that occasion! I believe marriage is supposed to be "til death do us part" and unless one of you has a chronic illness I wouldn't be cutting the cake just yet.
It is a contract between you, your spouse, God and the State. Not necessarily in that order!
Don't enter into something with one eye closed or one ear open it's not gonna work that way. Get the vision clear by seeing things with both eyes and listen to your heart with both ears it will help guide you through any questionable areas of life.
Ask yourself, am I willing to give my life to someone who I'm already having questions about? If you know what the answer is then go with it. If your still not sure, I'd recommend seeing a lawyer now and get the prenuptial agreement done. When it comes down to it get to the bottom of it now as you don't want to fall from the top after your married.
..........think about it............
2006-08-13 21:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by MsEagleTX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to provide more details. If the girls are friends that you've known about that he's been friends with for a long time, then I don't see anything wrong with it. If he's getting girls' numbers or calling girls that you've never met, then you need to talk with him - It sounds suspicious and it's best to get to the bottom of it BEFORE the wedding.
2006-08-13 21:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I say it pretty much depends. How long does he talk to the girls? Does he give them compliments? Does he laugh the whole time? Is there a point to the call or is it just to talk? You need to think about those things. Otherwise - get two to play at his game, and you call other guys to talk to. Simple as that. <3
2006-08-13 21:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I most certainly do not think this is proper. I can see if maybe he's calling regarding some surprise for you but other than that no. I am getting married in 8 months and I would certainly not do this.
2006-08-13 21:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would he want to call other girls? What does he say about it? I would be throwing a horrible fit about the whole situation.
2006-08-13 21:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not? who are these girls? Why is he calling them? Have you asked him these questions? Done any investigating yourself? I know you're supposed to trust the man, but if he's doing crap now, it's better to know now, then after you're married!!!
2006-08-13 21:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by vballerttd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your fiance is very friendly person. Just keep quietly watching him.
2006-08-13 21:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by divacobian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not believe you are so insecure. He has every right to have friends from both sexs just like you do.
2006-08-13 21:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a red flag waving in your face,
2006-08-13 21:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋