iwas seeing this guy and everthing was going good ,all at ones he stop calling me for 2- weeks now ,he is seperation for 9 mos. and as 2 kids.
2006-08-13 13:02:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't you just hate it when they leave situations hanging? Why not lay it all on the table, you know.
Well, what I think is he is either taking this time to see what it is he wants to do, if he wants to pursue this or not. Or maybe he wants to slow things down. Let him handle his situation.
Besides, if you have no kids, why the baggage? And he should be glad you are giving him the time or day. Or just know that you are not "losing out" if he is not calling. Follow your heart, as well as your INSTINCTS. In all aspects of the time being, KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN, honey.
There is a saying for lesson I once learned, too. :
Imagine a boat with him, his "EX WIFE" , and kids in it.
You, on the other hand, have one leg in their boat and one leg in your own.
If their boat takes off, you will fall.
Not saying it's always the case, but there's sometimes that chance. So best wishes
2006-08-13 13:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Men Stop Calling
2016-11-08 08:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by jesni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always one for giving someone another chance. And if he's got two kids he may have his hands full just now, August is getting ready for school time and vacation time too. So, call him up and find out what's changed. It's just possible the discussion could bring you closer together. Or, it could be the last straw for you.
2006-08-13 13:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say he is giving you a strong message. Also, if he is only separated, he may still have issues with his wife. Try to find a man who is not married. Good luck, hope you find the true love of your life. You'll know because he WON'T stop calling and you will love that.
2006-08-13 13:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space he maybe trying to work out the problems with his wife and kids. next time you meet a man who is freshly separated from a long term relationship don't be too quick to get attatched because you will be the one hurt when he goes back to his relationship be sure you are not just the rebound girl. i hate to sy it but if he hasn't thought about you in 2 weeks it's over.
2006-08-13 13:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by spagetti7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys DO..not men.And even though this guy has a wife AND a girlfriend,in my opinion,he is a BOY. Sweetheart,this man never intended to leave his WIFE for you..he got what he wanted and now he is FINISHED. Im sorry...but it's true.Find a single man who will treat you with respect. This man has obviously only used you.Good Luck!
2006-08-13 13:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.
Yes, some men do this. I would say in this case since he is not divorced at this time, it just really isn't "cool" to date someone. He legally still is married, and that makes him an adulterer, which can be a crime in some states.
No, sometimes family issues or work issues occur.
2006-08-13 13:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything was going good? Ya sure, it was so good he stopped calling you.
Stop kidding yourself. You screwed up somewhere down the line. Take the blame, and move on.
2006-08-13 13:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by guyinus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he didn't share the same feelings you did. It is time that you forget about him and move on. I don't know why guys have such a hard time being honest about their feelings. They like to use the ignore the problem and it will go away approach.
2006-08-13 13:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ms understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the end of a relationship, but maybe he is going through a hard time, you should try calling him and asking him up front.
2006-08-13 13:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by IamabrownE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋