2006-08-13 12:50:07 · 21 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not unless you let them do it again! He cant cheat on you again if you break up with him.Another woman,maybe.It Is Just Wrong.And I would never,ever trust my husband again if he cheated. Good Luck & Take Care!
2006-08-13 13:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not true, but it does depend on the individual and the situation. My husband cheated years ago. The circumstances surrounding his affair were rather normal. We grew apart, practically led two separate lives and he sought out what I was not giving him. It's been almost nine years since that happened and he hasn't cheated or thought about it. The affair actually brought us closer together. We went through counseling, worked on our marriage and family and are now not only husband and wife, but best friends. We do everything together and it works. Cheaters cheat because something is missing. If you take someone back who has cheated, you have to take the necessary steps to find out why that person cheated before you can move forward. It takes both of you to change, not just the cheater, and if you fail to complete that step, it's bound to happen again.
2006-08-13 13:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that. All the behavior I've seen seems to prove it, since I have never known a cheater who didn't cheat again!!!
2006-08-13 12:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all. People who cheat aren't any different than alcoholics, liars, gossipers, people who overeat, or people who kill.
Any person has the opportunity to leave behind their wrongness and become a better person. Something usually comes into a persons life, (may it be the consequences of their wrongdoing or just something inside of them that drives them to change), to change the way they are.
I'm a Christian and believe strongly that Jesus sacrificed His life so that we can be resurrected from a sinful life. That doesn't mean we will ever be perfect, but it does mean that when we are convicted of our wrong by the Holy Spirit, His life in us drives us to walk away from that sin and follow the Lord's will.
Thank you Jesus for creating in us "beauty from ashes".
2006-08-13 13:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by lilmissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Lilly, but I think it is true. Cheating is a character flaw. It doesn't go away on its own, and most cheaters won't address the problem and own it, so there you are.
2006-08-13 13:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think that its correct. That completely discounts that people can and do change. It also provides a convienient excuse
for people to quit relationships rather than work on the problems. It is so much easier to say he/she'll cheat again, goodbye, than work out the problems.
2006-08-13 13:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-13 12:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with this... at all.
I'm sure there are serial cheaters... but I, for one, would only have cheated with this one particular man.
2006-08-13 12:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by LovingMichael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, definitely, positively yes, without a fleeting shadow of a doubt in any way, shape or form.
2006-08-13 13:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost. 99% cheat again. If you cheat once, you feel the need to have varieties.
It take a special grace & discipline to stop.
2006-08-13 13:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Prof. Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋