2006-08-13 12:18:36 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I AM FEMALE
2006-08-13 13:08:02 · update #1
You should be truthful and faithful to your spouse.
2006-08-13 12:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tazz Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably dont feel guilty because you feel you wont *leave* your husband for another female because...well, he's a guy and he fulfills a certain role in your life. The woman you have is therefore just around as a spare wheel for fun times. Either way i'm trying to look at things, you're unfaithful to your husband, whether or not you will never leave him for a female. You're offering the woman you're with absolutely nothing other than taking/getting some fun times but not giving anything more.
Having looked at things from these angles i conclude that you are probably placing yourself at the centre of all the receiving thats going on around you. I think deep down you must know something aint right, which is what prompted you to ask this question to begin with. You don't have to treat others the way you would like to be treated, but then, you don't have to have an easy life either. Sooner or later, one's treatment of others catch up with you, and what you're setting up around you is just a scenario for future pain and grievance. You have been warned.
2006-08-13 12:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not do that. what do you think if your wift is flirty with other men? once a person gets married, she or he must be responsible and loyal to marriage. if you do not love your wife any more, you can try to tell her , even you can divorce but do not cheat on her. although you just are flirty with other women, it will hurt your wife. try to stop yourselves flirting with other women. you think you have already realized your problem, ( if not , you do not have to ask the qustion) so try to find a solution your wife. i hope you will be together forever.
2006-08-13 12:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by flora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a lesbian (your avatar says you are a WOMAN) - why don't you just divorce that man, and let him find someone who APPRECIATES his masculinity?!
Since you obviously don't have a conscience about toying with someone else's emotions, maybe you can find another girl to "play" with who shares your casual attitude towards "relationships"!!!
No, I don't think any of this is "O.K." - AT ALL! And I pity anyone who attempts to find committment with someone like you. Perhaps someone should explain to you what this word means!
2006-08-13 12:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you flirting with disaster? If you have a good marriage, take care of it and if your spouse objects to your flirtations then taking care of your marriage would mean that you find other ways to have "fun"
2006-08-13 12:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by qwestionz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman flirting with other women? Your husband might find it sexy. Why not ask him.
I think it's dishonest and a sin to be messing with other people (no matter what sex) after marriage.
2006-08-13 12:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would like to confirm if your a male or female...though your picture suggested your a female. Well if you desire it then you have all the freedom. Enjoy!!!
2006-08-13 12:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is okay in your mind? does it bother your spouse?
what does "flirty" mean exactly? If you don't feel bad, and everyone is okay with it, it's okay. If you are hurting someone's feelings, leading someone on, then it's probably not.
2006-08-13 12:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by doc_jhholliday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking of cheating or if you're acting like you are, then it's not okay. There are different kinds of flirting. If it looks like normal friendliness it's okay.
2006-08-13 12:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would your husband say? He is the one you should ask.
If you dont feel guil;ty you wont have any problems asking and he can only say 'NO'.
2006-08-13 12:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by ii337 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋