and what should I be doing with my hands and legs while I'm talking to her?
2006-08-13 12:10:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Talk to them about things your both interested in school, sports, hobbies etc.Talk to a girl just like you would be talking to a friend. Don't have to do anything with your hands and legs. Best relationships start off as friendships. Though I know that's not what you want to hear so just go up to her say hi and ask what her name etc.Then ask her for her number and ask her out. Judging completely on what you look like she might say yes.
2006-08-13 12:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ziggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw.
Do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If you aren't comfortable, she'll notice. Then you'll notice that she's noticing and you'll feel even less comfortable.
Once you're comfortable in your own skin, you won't be thinking about where to put your hands or how to stand and it will happen naturally. And there's nothing hotter than healthy confidence.
Talk about things that you talk to your friends about.
If she's not into those things, then she probably won't be into what you're into and it simply isn't meant to be.
I'm sure it all sounds so cliche, but people keep saying the same thing for a reason.
Just get over your insecurities. I'm sure it's all in your head.
I know that when I'm talking to someone, I'm hardly worried about where they're putting their hands and how they're standing. I doubt most people are thinking the same thing about you...
Good luck.
2006-08-13 19:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Olllive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should obviosly be relaxed. If you mean just talking as a friendly conversation then I would suggest keeping a short distance as to not insinuate that you're interested. Try not to fiddle or move around as to not give off the impression that you're nervous. Also try to chew gum or a mint. Kicking up a notch, I would suggest that you make some sort of physical contact. Maybe you and her would be sitting close to eachother, let your legs touch a little but no futsy! You might scare her off. LOL. Good luck.
2006-08-13 19:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first go up to the girl, and make a casual comment. Stand straight with ur legs a little apart and ur arms just hanging. Smile while you talk. Tell her you thought the math test was hard, etc... then ask her about the classes you all are in together, what she does after school? Put a joke in there, or maybe comment on her hair/etc....make her feel special. keep eye contact. smile.
2006-08-13 19:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly everything cutieee107 said, and heres some more
ok to talk to a girl, u need a game plan, now what to say before u say it, but be prepared for wat ever she might say, avoid lying, it comes back to haunt you, start off with a question, be funny but not a comedian, and most off all dont let her see u being unconfident, ur hands are a big give away also, no jittering, keep your hands in your pocket or let em hang, regular stuff, be comfortable around her, just remember be funny not hilarious, confident not cocky, and say what they want to hear or just what you think ( most shallow girls just want to hear about themselves), also say there beautiful or pretty,not sexy. last but not least have a decent appearance, you dont have to b prince charming to get a princess, just have clean clothes, fresh shoes, and well groomed, girls are the greatest detective, they pay attention to all details. so follow these and u should be good, no need for the 20 points, just trying to help out the fellow man, good luck!!!!
PS. most chicks say be your self dont worry and $h!t like that, thats BS most girls want a certain type of guy, and once u do something to turn them off, u got to do 2 more things to get them to like you, i know i went threw it in my beginning staes of dating
2006-08-13 19:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Detective Fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fidget! Try to make eye contact, but not too intense. Ask them about movies they might have seen or music they listen to. Mutual friends. Try to think of common ground. Don't talk too much about your interests that they do not have and don't pretend to like something just because they do.
2006-08-13 19:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. open you mouth and produce sound. form the sound into words with your tounge, move your lips. looking into her eyes never hurts. keep your hands out of your nose, away from your butt and if she holds your hand. do a little victory dance cuz your going in the right direction.
legs outta your nose too
2006-08-13 19:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by dizzogurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever u want wit ur hands. Then start out saying," hey whats up?" or" hi how r u?" then go on wit the conversation and if u wanna ask her out then u say, "Are u doin anything on saturday or sometin and then if she says yes hoorray!!! and if she says no then Im sorry?!
2006-08-13 19:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by roocioosb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicely...
You talk to her nicely, and the hands and legs will take care of themselves.
You talk to her nicely, and she won't even be looking at your hands and legs.
Talk to her nicely ... smile nicely ... and look nice in your dress and presentation; and you be nice to her, and she will just love you
2006-08-13 19:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and playful. Have a good sense of humor.
For hands use them while you talk or keep them at your sides, but don't nervously move them around.
2006-08-13 19:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by ericr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋