Scared to have a baby?

Question

Im making enough money and have enough to time to spend with it if i do have one. its just that im scared to have a baby because im scared i can die during pregnancy, or die while giving birth. (I'm pretty healthy I get check ups every 2 weeks actually) Im perfectly oky. But do you think its weird of me?

Answer 1

no. i thought about mortality when i got pregnant both times. i mostly thought about my babies mortality or health, but its not uncommon to worry about your own.

Answer 2

all mothers are scared to bits before having a baby. fearing that you may not be a good parent would have you make extra efforts to make it right. think about all these issues clearly and give them time. don't think that you don't have enough time, thats the worst thing you could do. if you don't love the guy it doesn't matter whether your a lesbian or not. just keep in mind that you can always be a single mom aswell and if you are in love with that girl and if she loves you back the same, I'm sure you'll get work things out for the best.

Answer 3

no not really, once i became pregnant with my now 8 month old son i was always scared that something would happen to me and my son would be hurt, all sorts of horrible things would pop intio my head. i think its just natural when you are pregnant or want a baby.
ofcourse there are somethings that can be dangerous to the unborn child and mother, but if u look after your self stay healthy and be happy you will be okay. once u fall pregnant and have your baby all those thoughts go out the window.
don't worry you'll be fine.
good luck on falling pregnant
bye...

Answer 4

It's natural to be scared of giving birth. Women do die during childbirth, but that's quite rare these days (in the US at least). Since you're healthy, I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 5

No it is not weird at all I am 8 months pregnant with my fourth child and with every delivery I was terrified about dying during birth but if you are perfectly healthy there is nothing to worry about it is common to be scared but once they lay that tiny baby in your arms it makes every thing alright. Good luck to you and God Bless You.

Answer 6

If you didnt worry about these thing, you wouldnt be human! Once you get pregnant, all your fears will be focussed on your baby, and if you are anything like me, you'll panic everytime the baby moves...or doesnt move for5 mins!! lol, it's natural!! try it and see...when the baby is born you will realise that you have the greatest gift you ever had and the love for this tiny person is sooo amazing that everything you are thinking now will be long forgotten

Answer 7

Fears are natural. But as a new parent, let me tell you that the fear doesn't end after you have the baby! After that, you worry about the baby's safety for about, oh, 70 years or so! :)

All part of the equation... heh heh. But seriously you'll probably be just fine if yer doctor says you're healthy.

Answer 8

no it's not weird. I used to have fears before I had a baby. Just to let you know although it is still possible to die in childbirth, with the medical advances that have been made it is more of a rarity than a norm now.

Answer 9

No, I am scared too!!! I am high risk but even before I knew I was high risk I was scared. To push out something so big, wow. Pregnacy is serious and so many things can happen but with medical technology and your good work on getting check ups, I bet you will be fine.

Answer 10

it's normal to be scared BUT for the record, women RARELY EVER die because of pregnancy or child birth. you are much more likely to die in a car accident... but you still get in a cars? lay your worries aside.. it will be alright!

Answer 11

You are not going to die. Now if you were in the thirteenth century, maybe. But it is the 21st century. People don't die during labor or pregnancy anymore, and if they do it is less than 1 percent.