I need mature people to please answer this and wise too!?

Question

Well I hav learned alot of lessons during the summer and alot of my friends this summer have been 21 or up. I am 16 and I met them at work, online, at other places. Theywere interesting to talk to and more mature but now when I go back to school I have to hang out with the kids I normally hanged out while I was in school which are all emo weirdos or people who love myspace and that crap that is now "in" and the typical high school crap. I don't want all the knowledge and wisdom to go to crap when I start school tomorrow! What can I do? I obviously have to go to school and I dont want to hurt no one's feelings or anything.

Answer 1

act like a 16 year old and stop calling them names at school
you have a long way to go
you want to grow up too fast-you'll be sorry-i am
get educated and see where you end up!

Answer 2

Ok you had an interesting summer with the older kids, but now its back to reality and kids your own age. Learn from this experience what you will, but dont be in a hurry to grow up. Youll be there soon enough and wish you were back to 16. You may be very mature at 16 but in all reality you are still 16 and in high school. Use your summer fun to write an English paper or such but leave it at that. You are in the best days of your life, so enjoy them and have fun, they wont last forever. All those people you met have only one thing in common,theyre all a couple of years older than you and thats it. You now have a chance to be better then most of them if you so desire cause now you know what 18-21 offers. Learn and grow from this summer,its the best thing you could do for yourself. Good luck

Answer 3

You sound wise beyind your years.

Unfortunately, the law says you are still a child, meaning that I ask that you not get "involved" with a boy older than 17. At 18 a boy is considered a man, and being involved with someone your age puts him in danger of being reported to authorities, serving a jail term & being classed as a 'sex offender' for the rest of his life, as a pedophile.

As far as this school thing, don't worry about it so. Maintain what friendships you can with the older girls you have met and secretly smile at the childishness of your classmates. You might just meet some girls that have matured as well over the summer & be able to make friends with them.

Good luck to you!

Answer 4

Good for you. Believe it or not there are kids in high school who are interested in mature topics. You are a better person for what you have experienced this summer. Take your experience with you to high school. Maybe your actions will speak volumes to the friends you hang out with. You do not have to say anything because of course you will hurt their feeling and they will isolate you from the crowd.

Find the mature students in school or after school in other activities, but do not totally alienate the others, you might need them one day. You can have friends from all the groups, jerks, goths, nerds, cool, whatever they are calling them these days. Good luck

Answer 5

It won't "go to crap" as you put it, because it's now a part of your experience-base; a base upon which you will build for the rest of your life. Now that you've been exposed to different perspectives and points of view, remember how "alive" you felt at the prospect of learning new things. If you can keep that enthusiasm for learning throughout your life, it will serve you well in immeasurable ways. One word of caution however: The world is full of wonders and knowledge that can delight and amaze you, but it is also full of dangers and snares you don't have experience avoiding yet. This is not said to frighten you, but to make you aware that it's also perfectly fine to take your time growing up...even among the friends you have that are doing the same old things. The world will still be here when you're ready.

Answer 6

you never forget wisdom .thats stays with you forever so dont worry about that .mayb when you go back to school you should try finding a new group of friends .not all kids in highschool act like emos .still be cool with your old friends but get new ones .i also dont see why you cant be friends with the people at your job .just cause your in school doesnt mean you cant talk to these people .if they are truly your friends they will still wanna see you and hang out with you

Answer 7

You said yourself you talk to the older friend group on the net, just keep in touch through email and stuff and the people you hang out with go about your normal routine of hanging out. If your other friends aren't as mature as your other friends just don't mix the groups.

Answer 8

you are 16 and you need to make your own decisions but you also need to stay a teenager as long as you can. just because you are friends with someone does not mean you have to like the same things. you do not need to hang around with 21 year olds they are way out of your league. of course they are more mature but you are 16 you cannot change your age

Answer 9

This is an exciting challenge for you! You are becoming that wise and mature person, and you can be a better friend because of it. Be understanding of their insecurities and their fears--they're are trying to grow up and don't know how. Can you stay in touch with some of your summer friends? I don't see why you have to give up one world for another, because I think you can have both.

Answer 10

when u get to school just say hi to all the friends that u normally hang w (so they dont get mad or nutin) then just go over to a more muture group that u at least no 1 person in(or it will feel aquard) u should still talk to all ur frinds but that doesnt mean u have to act like them...
well good luck in school 2marro!!hope i helped!

Answer 11

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