One of my best friends has a huge crush on me,but he won't admit it.Everyone can see it,but he says he doesn't want to be anything more than good friends.However,he only says that to me.To everyone else,he says he sees chemistry between us,and would love to be more than friends.I don't know what to do,I think he may be shy,but that just isn't like him.
2006-08-13 11:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by *~*NY[ii]MM NY[ii]MM*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For those who ask whether I like him,I haven't really thought about it.But,yes,I do!
2006-08-15 04:57:41 · update #1
Oh you would be surprised sweetie. I met a bloke similar to this he told my mate we had a chemistry and the rest of the people we worked with but never told me. He was friendly and chatty to everyone else. His friend used to tell me that he loved me and was waiting for me to show that I wanted him. He was deep down painfully shy and thought he was not good enough for me.I never did show that I wanted him and he left eventually. If you want your guy then go get him!!!!
2006-08-13 11:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see what happens!Don't force the issue or u may end up losing not only the chance of a new bf but a good friend too!Good luck
2006-08-13 18:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant come straight out and tell you
how many more women has he got a crush on
hes romancing with himself!
so dont be more than good friends -if thats his decision to you
let it stay that way
2006-08-13 18:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by domazina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe too bashful to say it to your face, he may think you will reject him.
Y don't u just confront him about this get him somewhere by himself and confess how u kow and how u feel about it.
2006-08-13 20:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he values your friendship and feels a closer relationship will mean he losses it, if a relationship doesn't work out.
2006-08-13 18:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like him?
if you do the remedy for shyness is simple
pull him against your coat and give him a good snog he'll get the picture!
2006-08-13 18:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do is to see what happens...dont push anything, everything will happen in its own time.
2006-08-13 18:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by pirate_holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like him? maybe he thinks you dont feel the same, so is too scared. tell him you like him if you do
2006-08-13 18:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by koko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the two of you are on your own ask him he might be afraid of rejection
2006-08-13 18:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest is the only way.
2006-08-13 18:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋