Why do I get hurt that easily? I've been in a few relationships and I seem to get hurt easily by my partners, when they don't pay attention to what I have to say, or other friends have more preference than me, or when I'm asked If I want to have *** with somebody at the same time, besides my partner. Am I wrong? Should I just try understand things better? If anyone wants to help me about this, please let me have your Y! messenger so we can talk
2006-08-13 11:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-08-13 12:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josh, you need to first realize that not everyone is going to have the same concept of what an ideal relationship is. Let me first say, you sound like a sweet person who just wants a simple, quiet, loving, monogamous partnership. This is perfectly acceptable, but you must be sure that before you enter any relationship, that you know the person both emotionally and spiritually. Not everyone wants what you want. Also remember that there are many others like you out there who have not found their Mr. Right either. As for being sensitive, you may be a bit, but that shouldn't make your feelings any less valid. Chin up, life always has twists and turns and we may not always like them, but why else ride a roller-coaster if not for the ups and downs........it always ends up being one hell of a ride.
2006-08-13 18:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone ,he is your absolute priority,you pay attention to every little detail,you don't want to miss a thing or a moment.You can't help it.It is the way nature works.When someone is not the priority, it means there is not love involved.There could be a lot of other reasons to be with someone but not love.You realize that subconsciously and that is why you hurt.
You are looking for love.It is a matter of chance.We have to kiss a lot of frogs looking for a prince - if we are lucky!
2006-08-13 18:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ones who don't pay attention to you aren't worth being around. You can do better in picking your friends, just let them get to know you a bit more than you give yourself credit for.
2006-08-13 18:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may be young & maybe a tad bit insecure. i think if you were confident in what you wanted in a relationship, then you wouldnt settle for less,and then be hurt b/c people are trying to treat you lower than your standards. you are sensitive and you feel things deeply, and that is a beautiful human quality. but trust me it is hard to find other people who also function that way. lots of people are quite shallow. so you may have to toughen up just a little bit to keep from becoming depressed,and also bitter from all of the bad experiences. just keep working to find a balance. keep your standards up and dont let people treat you like ****. stand up for your heart!
peace
2006-08-13 18:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably just a sensitive person. There is nothing wrong with that. You should just try to find more sensitive partners.
2006-08-13 18:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U find u're self gettin hurt cause u give u're self all at once.U should act like things dont matter sometimes in u're relationship,dont put u're heart on tha table so fast.An if u try those thing I bet u'll have betta luck in tha love department.Think'a bout it...
2006-08-14 01:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately most people are self-centred and do not pay enough attention to the needs of others. i guess u just gotta accept that your partner/s are different from you.
2006-08-13 20:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sensitive person.
2006-08-13 19:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋