2006-08-13 11:09:28 · 52 answers · asked by chloeeparker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because we all think it's good to imitate a romantic novel, whats love without the heartache eh?????? It's what we feel about our parents, dog or siblings.
If it's true love then unfortunately the heartache comes with it.
2006-08-13 11:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women should not blame the men for their heartaches as men should not blame the women for heartaches, a person who had a heartache made a wrong choice of a person to be with and end up with a heartache, and every person who go through of heartache should get up and learn from their mistakes, but for the person who doesn't face their mistake ad never learn from their failure are weak, before you learn to love somebody and that somebody to love you, you have to love yourself first and respect yourself and in return they will love and respect you. And patience in waiting for the right one will have the chances to find the right one without heartache, every one of us is destined to the right person and somewhere along the way that right person will just come along into your life without you even knowing it.
2006-08-21 09:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by confused_fozz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we think everthing is supposed to be so perfect we put are boyfriends on these pedisols. and really there only human. they make just as much mistakes as the next person. we just dont want to believe it. so when a mistake happens were so shocked and so broken up inside. we just never saw it coming. well if some of us would open our eyes a little wider then we would see that most things ae not at all what they seem.we dont lear because we expect that if it hapened once it wont happen again. we want to believe so bad that something is , when it is not.
2006-08-21 08:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well men and woman alike gives heartache i dont think its just the men i feel like we all put our hearts out there to be broken when we open up in a relationship. dont give up hope and even if you dont think you learned anything i would bet you have. good luck
2006-08-21 09:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by china 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos we are women, and we need men as much as that sounds wrong in this day and age. In all of us is the eternal optimist.
We fall in love. We do this with an open heart and mind cos that is the only way it would be right and true, cos u never know, this one MAY be the one....or the next.... and the one after that!...Good luck x
2006-08-20 08:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do women cause such heartache and why do we never learn and why do i always get my ear bent when Ive done nothing wrong
2006-08-13 11:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is more simple than you think! They only cause heartache IF YOU LET THEM! Put yourself first, and think of them second. (I think I have only met one man in all my yrs. that was worth putting first.) But for the majority of them, just don't expect alot from them, and you won't be disappointed. And the more you ignore them, the more they want you. Hope that helps.
2006-08-13 11:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men cause heartache, and YOU never learn cos you keep going back to the same types of men.
2006-08-16 03:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault - you claim to like tenderness and sophistication but go for loud mouthed mediocrity instead. You perceive men that are popular with their fellows as successful - in reality they are examples of stereotypical male behaviour, riddled with the resultant faults.The writings on the wall from the start. Men are pretty much alike, but some of us recognise our excesses and try to moderate them. Why not learn to appreciate this?
2006-08-21 05:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Silkie1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe me, men don't have a monopoly on this.
Some women can be far more cruel and hurtful than any man could be.
There is no excuse for anyone, male or female, treating another person badly.
If you have been badly hurt by a man I am sorry.
2006-08-13 11:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋