try to get them to take you to dine out, and always order the most expensive thing and then only eat like 2 bites of it
2006-08-14 09:23:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I would tell your parents that you do not like being around your grandparents because they are mean to you.They probally willobserve it next time you'llget together and say something to the effectof: I notice that you are harsh with...
hopefully their behavior willchange. How old are they?Do they have anything serious wrong with them..if si this could be why they are unhappy and taking it out on others. my mom is 86 and has a disease where you loose your vision..she islegally blinin one eye and the other on e she sees fair out ofit.
this makes her sad and angry and sometimes she hurts my feelings or i feel like i did something wrong but i n reality she is upset about getting older,and not being able to drive anymore. Older people do not like loosing there independence and hate relying on there children or grandchildren or spouse
"if" he or she is still alive.(thats another thing to be sad about loosing your spouse,best-friend ,lover and companion of all the years that they where together.Older people think about dying and it scares them.The idea of dying
scares almost every one....Old people donot want o leave their love ones....
especially if they are sick, poor, etc.Think about all i've said and ask your granparents if they don't lke you.You are probally going to br relieved with there answer.Please be with them ,learn from them,and just let them talk and listen too them because that means more to them....ASk them about there lives growing up: dates ,food,entertainment everything was sooo different,also learn every thing about your parent s childhood...these are stories that iyu can pass down to your children and grand children(another generation)..I hope i helped, let me know how it went take care........
2006-08-16 05:49:59
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answered by FELINELOVER 5
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This isn't dining out. You can't find grandparents on the menu. Post this in the family folder.
2006-08-13 18:56:59
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answered by redunicorn 7
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Confront them by asking them WHY they are mean and back your questions and point of view up with specific occasions that happened where you felt you were being treated unfairly.
2006-08-17 12:20:58
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answered by guerajs 1
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Need an example of two of the behavior you see as mean, thanks.
Will respond if you do so.
2006-08-13 17:57:28
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answered by Anonymous
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just love them anyways
you are mean sometimes and they still love you
2006-08-14 14:47:30
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answered by chipmunk 4
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stop talking to them, unless you have to- don't give them any room to be mean
2006-08-17 10:50:50
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answered by shannon 4
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ask them why they are mean...put them on the spot.
2006-08-13 17:57:02
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answered by Baby #1 born August 2009 6
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don't hold your breath for nice christmas presents?
2006-08-15 19:53:54
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answered by braslinbabe85 2
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