My fiance and I are so completly different. We moved in together after only a month of knowing eachother. I love him, yes. But I am the one who's been there, done that, seen it all. And he was an alter boy for 10 years of his life, and has never left the town he grew up in. I don't know what to do, and I'm at my wits end with it. Should we give up? Or try and make it work? Please only serious answers here, because I am very serious.
2006-08-13 10:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by carisathedreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no dont give up...you said you loved him so tell him that there is more to life than his small town. he needs to see the world
2006-08-13 10:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty 'N Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, it sounds like you were/are only infatuiated with him but not true love. You may like him but never marry him. This is why you are where you are now. You guys got into way too much of a hurry without really knowing each other and made a huge mistake by moving in with each other. Basically, you two are forcing each other to "love" each other when there is nothing there right now to build on.Im not saying that there isnt anything between you two, but you have to move at a much slower pace and let love grow somewhat before moving in. You two need to seperate living quarters and see if you two can grow as friends and let love take its course, otherwise this relationship is headed for disaster and you will never know if this was meant to be. You, as the more experienced of the two, should have known this beforehand and never allowed this to happen. He needs to grow up a bit and be on his own before taking such a huge leap. Talk to him and dont be surprised or hurt if he feels the same way. Good luck
2006-08-13 18:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is you guys got engaged after only knowing each other a month, and then you all moved in together..it takes a lot longer then a month to get to truly get to know each other, and if you're struggling with how he is then maybe you need to slow down and get to know him a little better before jumping into anything.
My only advice is slow down and get to know him, maybe there's a reason he is the way he is, just like you are the way you are..and you never know it may un-nerve him that you are "outgoing"
2006-08-13 17:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so whats your point ? Do you still want to do things you used to do ? So what he hasn't done a lot of things ? Aren't you ready for a change ? I really dont understand what your at your wits end with. If you elaborate maybe we can help better.
2006-08-13 17:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are in lov with what you was hoping for better to find the real him. move on get out before it to lat and di not have sex and have ababy with him. then you are lock together
2006-08-13 17:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes show him there's more to this world than just alters.
2006-08-13 17:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋