I think I'm pregnant by this guy I've been dating for two years. We are in love and both really excited about having a baby, but not yet. I'm way to young to have a baby, I'm only 16. I don't believe in abortion but I am scared to ruin this childs life. My boyfriend is 18 and he seems to be handling this better than I am. I don't know why but lately it seems like I am falling out of love with him and I think it is because of this. Ever since i thought i might be pregnant, all i want to do is be away from him. I love him more than anything and i know that i need him and his baby needs him. I just want to feel the way i used to about him, can anyone help?!
2006-08-13 10:45:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It sounds like you could use something called "options counseling". Your pregnancy seems to have taken on dimensions you didn't imagine -- that's normal. I'd suggest calling 1-800-772-9100 tomorrow morning. The people there have factual, unbiased information about your options and will support you whatever you choose to do.
Hang in there. The most important thing about this decision is that it has to be YOUR choice -- nobody else's.
2006-08-13 12:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by AuntieRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you don't need him you still want him it's a difference. When you are pregnant your hormones are completely out of whack, that what explains the fact that you do want to be around him or should I say falling out of love with him. You guys are way to young to be dealing with a issue like this and believe me he is going to either leave you or give you as much bullshit as he possibly can. If you haven't told your parents you should so you can get the proper care for you and the baby.I was a young mom too. It's gonna be hard and your life is pretty much over until the baby get older. Try not to worry because it not good for you or that baby and STRESS is a hell no.I wish you the best and enjoy your child and please don't take your anger out on the baby when she/he gets here. Also you should have been protected and you would not have been going thru this especially not now.
2006-08-13 11:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about adoption. Lots of married couples are looking for babies. Your parents probably will not be as mad as you think they will be. In all honestly, you are too young to have a baby, no insult to your maturity, but no 16 year old is ready. You will resent giving up for "teenage" years to a baby once the novelity wears off.
Secondly, you will date lots of guys before you find the one you want to marry, the chances of it being this guy, especially under the circumstances are very slim, most 18 year old "boys" do not want a baby.
2006-08-13 10:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by kyahooa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK im going to help you have you told your mom and dad yet well lets start first what were you doing having SEX are you crazy your only 16 but lets get started what i think you should do if you don't believe in having an abortion then have the baby give it to one of your family member s to keep the baby or just raise the baby your self my older sister had a baby at 16 she took care of the baby and she is still talk to the baby daddy but she is not with him any more. but try what i told you to do. E-mail me if you need more information.
2006-08-13 11:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
becoming disconnected with others, yourself included (wanting to run away from your thoughts, mind, self) is normal. Also, you are very young to be having a baby. So this DOES have something to do with it. I felt somewhat the same way when I first found out I was pregnant, so don't feel as though there is anything wrong with you. Hope you are feeling better. Good luck and God bless.
2006-08-13 10:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Edit~ A blood try is the suited being pregnant try. besides the undeniable fact that, in case your HCG stages were back to 0 3 weeks in the past yet you took a try the day previous to this, something is amiss. being pregnant checks seek for the HCG contained in the blood or urine--so for you to have some if that's functional. This does sound like a question for the record, because to my understanding it does take some weeks (no longer days) for stages to achieve 0. that's between the the clarification why they visual reveal unit women folk who they believe have had miscarriages, to make confident their numbers really do bypass to 0 and the body handed the embryo out with the help of itself.
2016-11-24 23:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by moncayo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn ma idk wat to tell u..well here it goes ur still very young but that doesn't mean u don't feel.everyone has a point in their relationship where they question themselves but that's ok.remember "WAHT DOESNT KILL U,ONLY MAKES U STRONGER".you are just realli stressed out n prolly need time to think on ur own witout nobody infleuncin u.its ur decision that gonna change ur future.how u goin 2 support da babie? do ur parents kno..?? if ur man has proven to care for u and hasn't mistreated u or cheated and you know hes worth it dont let ur self get carried away n do sum stupid shyt feel me so hea it goes....do what's best for you....rememba dis is sumttin serious n ask urself..is he really the man u wanna spend the rest of ur life with??!! if the answer is no then you should reconsider. dont be forced in a relationship for the babie cuz is not healthy for the baby if yall gonna b fightin n shyt..well wish u the best anywayzz
2006-08-13 10:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by MillZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your under alot of pressure right now so give yourself a break, first find out if you are really pregnant and then talk to a counselor. If you don't want a baby there are alot of good people who would gladly take your baby.
2006-08-13 11:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be having sex in the first place.
Since you took it upon yourself to have sex knowing the chances of getting pregnant (STDs and AIDS are among other things), then you need to deal with it. Play like an adult pay like an adult.
That is why we adults stress to you minors DO NOT HAVE SEX, finish school, go to college do something with your life but DO NOT HAVE SEX if you a minor because you all cannot seem to handle these kinds of issues.
2006-08-13 11:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! You will regret it. I was thirteen with my first, sixteen with my second, and I am expecting twins now and I am twenty. Just keep the baby and live with it. You will regret it you give it up for adoption, too. It was your fault that you made a bad decision.
2006-08-13 14:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋