i am very opinionated,and tell the truth when someone asks me for advice ,but then i never hear from them again. i don't believe in clicks or all that girl gossip stuff. i consider myself educated and morally correct.i do have values,but that is not enough.what am i doing wrong?
2006-08-13 10:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by stormy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe people don't understand you.alot of people ask for the truth and really don't want to hear it,they just say that .i would ask them what they want to hear.or bounce the question back at them.just tell them something without saying anything.that's what i do ! i don't think you're a b-tch.you sound like a honest person.
2006-08-14 03:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by WHAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Aspergers high frequency autism. It is extremely easy to be 100% honest, yet 100% gullible without knowing it. I'm extremely opinionated, tell people the absolute truth sometimes to the detriment of friendship. Clicks are a complete waste of time. Read books, and grow in your genius, thats the key.
2006-08-13 17:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by *zz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the people you meet are superficial? It may be the answer. We all want different things from life, and maybe you just don't share the views they consider important.
The other possibility is that you are kind of imposing when giving advice or give your view-point.
And finally, maybe YOU have no interest in them and they can feel that.
Ok, those are all the possibilities I could think of.
Good luck! :)
2006-08-13 17:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by elisatorres1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first person.u prob. are or come off as a *****.ur prob the kinda person that thinks theyre right all the time,nobody wants a friends that all like look at me look at me
2006-08-13 18:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cyanide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not sugar coating the truth. you're telling people the brutal truth. that's not what they want to hear. you have to tell people the truth nicely NOT in a mean way. that's what you're doing wrong.
2006-08-13 17:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl have no firnd cuz they gossip ofr all those stuff!ur problem is that u are too honest and ppl don't reallly like that!It annoying lol!
2006-08-13 17:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some folk dont like that
2006-08-13 17:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Stoner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a BIT*H
2006-08-13 17:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋