people say sex isn't love what do you think
2006-08-13 10:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by robertbickelsr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sex isn't love. love is love.
2006-08-13 10:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is supposed to be a temporary, physical stimulant that's controlled by whoever desires it. It has a start and it has an ending. Love on the other hand is eternal which has no ending. Love is physically and psychologically expressed. The thing about sex and love is that they never have the same value. Both of these should never be looked upon as an equal. Some people think that sex is more valuable than love, some believe that love is more valuable than sex. So with that, people have their own opinions about love and sex, which causes confusion for people who just want to know what is the right way to look upon love and sex. The truth is that love is indeed supposed to be a lot more valuable than sex. People can spare some sex, it's just that love is what needs to be exercised fully. Here's one example that proves that love is more valuable than sex: You might've heard that a lot of couples in these days are breaking up either because he's not getting enough sex from her or she's not getting enough sex from him. Notice that love isn't mentioned in this situation. Therefor, sex is dominating the relationship instead of love. Once there's too much lack of sex, the relationship is on the rocks. But when love dominates the relationship, sex should be secondary. Try viewing love and sex as a foundation and a house. Keep in mind that sex is still temporary and love is forever. Which is your foundation? Is it love or sex? Try thinking if you've built your house on a solid foundation, does it last forever? Now think of it the opposite way; you're building your house on top of a temporary foundation. Doesn't look too good does it? That's why love needs to be everyone's foundation in their relationship because otherwise that makes love look temporary.
2006-08-14 00:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by musician2004@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really love someone you can show them how much by having sex with them. Some people have sex just cause it feels good and they like it. So in that case it is not love. But sex on a honeymoon, that is love. So really it is all in how you look at it. So technically, sex is both love and just sex.
2006-08-13 17:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the mood and how you two feel about each other. There are certain things that we do when we have sex, that SHOWS that we love our partner. If in love and having sex, then yes you are loving your mate and its not just sex, because you then expand on the act itself, what I mean is what I stated earlier, DOING THINGS that are more than sex in the bed. Having sex is just that, wham bam thank ya mam, you do the dirty deed and that is that, being in love, you take care and time and patients with each other. Exploring each other, Thats what "making love" is truly all about.
2006-08-14 03:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be one way of showing your love,but it can also be a totally physical thing with no feelings at all behind it
2006-08-13 17:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just ONE form of showing your love, it's not love in it's self.
2006-08-13 17:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex are different almostly from love cuz i depend the sex is the start of the end of the love and it is a fact and i tested it many times and it is true.
take care xxx
2006-08-13 17:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most times, sex is a way of showing love. [i say most times, because nowadays, sex is physical lust to some people].
2006-08-13 18:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Isabela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh...HELLZZZ to the NOOO.
sex is plain ******. love is when u have sex and have feelings for this person.
---one +night +stand= sex.= NOT LOVE
love is something that develops an grows wit time n patience
sex is just FUN =)
2006-08-13 17:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by MillZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll you could have sex if you really love someone ... but like if you dont love them personally then it is just sex ... but if you really love that person then its making love
2006-08-13 17:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋