i'm 20 i'm obese and not an ATTRACTIVE PERSON . i have a very high sex drive and i need to know what i can do to make it go away. i dont want to make my fiance have todeal with it anymore and he doesnt want to touch me more then he has to anyway. i'm not looking for sympathy, i just want my sex drive to go away till i loose weight and am not so disgusting.
2006-08-13 10:22:45 · 15 answers · asked by mommyshlee 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Run, run, run!!!
2006-08-13 10:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by hunterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but your sex drive is normal ,especially if it is an expression of your love for your partner .If you're worried about your s.d. see a local counselor.
You say you're obese .If you really want to keep your man try to exercise . Swimming is a great low impact exercise , get on a bike .Walk and above all eat correctly .See a doctor before you start an exercise program Don't use over the counter diet pills or remedies such as that .......
Could it be that you have such a high sex drive because you think that's how you can keep your man .If so it's backfiring .DIET AND EXERCISE...Thats the ticket .Maybe after you devote yourself to a healther lifestyle you'll be happier and healthier .Remember this is for YOU not for him ..get going girl and good luck ...
2006-08-13 10:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she nonetheless on the medicine for the submit partum melancholy? Is she nonetheless taking hormonal beginning administration? Has her gyno adjusted her BC prescription because she's given beginning? How old are the youngsters? it takes approximately 2-3 years after the final being pregnant for hormone ranges to return to everyday. Antidepressants can intrude with the sexchronic and may well be adjusted so as that they nonetheless do the interest they ought to do yet do no longer kill the libido. a woman in her previous due 20s or early to mid 30s has diverse hormone point standards for their BC than young women folk and a woman who has given beginning has diverse standards than the lady who has not at all given beginning. If she's no longer on any bc in any respect and you haven't any longer had a vasectomy, then that ought to hitch the libido killer top there. demanding approximately yet another being pregnant must be so some distance in her subconcious that she's no longer even conscious that that's bothering her. She could additionally decide directly to seek for a clean gyno. Any gyno who tells his/her affected person that there is no longer something they might do some low libido after the affected person has expressed undertaking approximately it, does not be conscious of the thank you to do their interest.
2016-09-29 05:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady, obese or not, your not disgusting, If your fiance loves you he will love you for who you are, not what you look like. If he really loves you then why doesn't he want to touch you more than he has to??
For you own sake DON'T do anything to rid yourself of your sexuality, it will be the worse thing you ever did. Accept it and enjoy it, it's a great thing. You just need more self confidence then you will see that a high sex drive isn't a taboo.
2006-08-13 10:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by northbaygranny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy having a high sex drive....in your 20's...that's normal. It naturally decreases as you get older anyways. You;ll again peek somewhere in your 40's. As for your boyfriend...if he doesn't want to touch you anymore than he has to (as you say)....find another! He's not right for you! Don't settle just because you're heavy....lots of guys out there don't mind extra weight! It's wha'ts inside that counts! Don't take any meds...you don't need that! Enjoy yourself....it's normal! As for the attractiveness...there are many ways to make one self attractive. Besides loosing weight, there's updating your hair do, clothes, make-up, .....spend the day at a spa will make you feel good about yourself. Remember, it's who you are inside that makes you beautiful......there are many georgeous women out there at are not so beautiful because they are nasty inside! Love who you are! and remember you ARE beautiful!
2006-08-13 11:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ronique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Angst is fueling your sex drive - - - - - one part of your brain is Screaming 'I'm disgusting I'm Fat I'm Ugly' and another part of your brain is pumping out hormones saying 'hey I'm sexy I want sex.' Try meditative Yoga. Discuss with your brain why you hate yourself so much. It is understandable - - - in a society where every character on TV has to be pretty even 'the ugly ones,' with everyone in America encouraged to use Fatso & ****** & Liberal in place of once vile swear words, in a Nation where late night comics are guaranteed a laugh by insulting actresses for weight gain & their sex lives - - - - it is hard for a person to like themselves in a nation feeding on bigotry & hatred. Other methods of dealing with this - - -go to an Herb shop and ask for help - - - several Native teas can help - - - the only recipe I know sounds disgusting but hey it was used by Natives for 'supressing female energy. Seep several ounces of Puke Weed in tepid water for at lest two days, then add Oil of Valarian Root and two pinches of Pennyroyal, an herb, and a pinch of Lavender. Force yourself to drink it. It will taste awful but it might work. Not having a uterus I can only rely on the word of others. A good herbalist is best to consult face to face. Good Luck - - -
2006-08-13 10:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Improve your liver function so it can filter out and detox your hormones easier. You may try the herb dandelion, it works very very well for this. Buy a book on natural therapies and it can explain liver detoxification & therapies.
Avoid red meat, and dairy products since they are pumped full of hormones (you can buy natural meats & dairy at a food co-op, Trader Joes, or natural food store).
Drink 20oz's minimum of water and fluids each day.
If you were especialy motovated, you can see a Traditional Chinese Medicine practioner and they could greatly help bring your entire body into balance, both hormonaly and weight wise.
Hope your stress levels improve one way or another. Take it easy.
2006-08-13 10:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by passenger204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is go swimming every time you get aroused. If you can't go swimming then start to exercise. Whatever type of exercise you can do. For example, jumping jacks, jogging in place. All these can be done in a pool also so it won't hurt your joints. Hope this helps.
2006-08-13 10:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie i hope you know that beauty is inside -our bodies are temporary housing for our souls. the only thing we take with us when we go. talk to your doctor about exercise. start with walking it will release some endorphines and decrease your drive. and you will feel better about your self. also don't be afraid to get a vibrator and pleasure yourself- this will make you feel better about your self also. good luck and be good to yourself
2006-08-13 10:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by maryoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a vibrator.
It sounds like you're being too hard on yourself. Good luck with your weight loss.
2006-08-13 10:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The birth control depo provera worked for me.
2006-08-13 11:09:25 · answer #11 · answered by Antisocial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋